hello ladies new to the bump and am finding boards that seem very helpful to me, this one definently I had my DS 3 years ago and it was 18 hours of labor, 9 cm and no epidural when all of a sudden *boom* his cord has him stuck in my birth canal and had to go in for emergency Csection.... needless to say it was traumatic for everyone. So we are on baby #2 now and couldnt be more excited, what I am nervous/upset about is the OB that i originally saw( have since scheduled to meet new OB for other reasons) told me I was a perfect candiate for a VBAC, I am terrified of that, at first i was excited but than i researched why most drs opt. to do a Csection after a previous csection and the risk of tearing open internally puts me on edge. I am an obese woman and as some could imagine internal bleeding is not something that can be easily delt with in an emergency situation... does anyone have their own fears? or had experience with a VBAC?