i'm a big fan of repeat POASing in the first days after you find out. i didn't do that with my son, but everything turned out fine with him. i DID do it with my other lost babies, and had i not been keeping track, i wouldn't have known something was wrong. you're only 3w3d too... that's still really early!... if you were still POAS at 8 weeks, i might stage a stick-tervention
Since I'll probably be leaving I'll go ahead and add mine. I don't care if someone calls it a gender reveal party (whatever, just give me a cupcake), I don't think announcing on FB is tacky, and I think cake smash photo shoots are adorbs. </p>
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