We live in SD and all our family lives in IL so having a big party is out of the question. Both my parents and my in laws are coming out, but at different times (they prefer it that way so as to not have to share LO!) which is fine, but part of me wants to have a big party, but I know this will be easier as I don't have to worry about finding a venue or decorating, but part of me wants to make this a big deal. Anyone else having a small gathering? Are you still decorating and going all out? I don't think anyone will except us to, but I'm just curious as to what others are doing.
Re: Anyone else having a small 1st birthday party?
When my daughter turned 1, my husband and I brought her to the zoo for the day. It was perfect. So now we've decided that it's our "family tradition" ....to have a quiet, immediate family-only zoo outing for the first birthday, and that's what we'll be doing for our son.
(Every birthday since the 1st though has been a big party with all her "little buddies" from daycare, though, so I guess it's just the first one that we keep low-key!)