Change in plans vent

morrkim

My mom called me today to inform me that the date of our family's reunion pig roast got changed to the weekend after. I am so pissed because I asked around a month ago what weekend it was going to be because h had gotten tickets to a broncos game that weekend and he is taking his dad and I was going to go to a wedding with my MIL. Now I feel like I have to choose between my family and h family. The pig roast will be the first time most of my family will get to meet Alexis and the first time we will meet my cousins family. We will probably not get a chance to see them again till a year later. We didn't go last year because it was too close to my due date. I can go by myself with Alexis since he has already bought the tickets, but it is a long drive by myself. Also my MIL has really been looking forward to this trip with us. I feel guilty if I cancel on her. My family thing would be cheaper because we wouldn't have to fly. I just don't know what to do. Why do people have to change dates of things?

morrkim

I love both families. @Wanderingstars23 I am from SW Kansas. My MIL is in Nebraska. The family reunion is in SE Kansas. The wedding is for a cousin on h side and is New Jersey and this will probably be the only chance for her to meet them. MIL is doing the photography and the little girls dresses. If I don't go she will be going by herself because her h is going with my h. That is one of the reasons why I was going to go with her. .It's about 5-6 hours depending on the stops.