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bfn...guess i womt be joining u

Well ladies. .....I want to thank u for letting me post some questions on your board....unfortuintly I won't be joining u ....13dpo and still a neg...af will be here tomorrow
I hope you all have a wonderful day and beautiful bundles of joy....take care

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    So these ladies aren't "bitches" like we are hunh???
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    Pink, I'm so sorry--I just read through the TTCAL thread.

    Panther, we're usually pretty P&R over here, but you have crossed way too many lines. You have called amazing, supportive, strong women "bitches." You have informed a long-standing board member who--in spite of repeated heartbreak--continues to post and share information and offer support that she should "move over to TTCAL 6+".

    If and when you do get a BFP, I will keep my mouth shut if you choose to come over here. Until then, though, you need to do some lurking, some non-self-centered supporting, and some learning to write full sentences with periods.

    PgAL ladies, if you missed her TTCAL comments, here's the thread link:
    Sorry about your BFN, but all of that. Wonderfully said, Rosie!
    I third that..
    Reading that thread made me sorry for the TTCAL girls having to deal with that..
    These ladies are amazing! What were you thinking :-??
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    Pink, I'm so sorry--I just read through the TTCAL thread.


    Panther, we're usually pretty P&R over here, but you have crossed way too many lines. You have called amazing, supportive, strong women "bitches." You have informed a long-standing board member who--in spite of repeated heartbreak--continues to post and share information and offer support that she should "move over to TTCAL 6+".

    If and when you do get a BFP, I will keep my mouth shut if you choose to come over here. Until then, though, you need to do some lurking, some non-self-centered supporting, and some learning to write full sentences with periods.

    PgAL ladies, if you missed her TTCAL comments, here's the thread link:


    Thank you, Rosie.

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    Pink, I'm so sorry--I just read through the TTCAL thread.

    Panther, we're usually pretty P&R over here, but you have crossed way too many lines. You have called amazing, supportive, strong women "bitches." You have informed a long-standing board member who--in spite of repeated heartbreak--continues to post and share information and offer support that she should "move over to TTCAL 6+".

    If and when you do get a BFP, I will keep my mouth shut if you choose to come over here. Until then, though, you need to do some lurking, some non-self-centered supporting, and some learning to write full sentences with periods.

    PgAL ladies, if you missed her TTCAL comments, here's the thread link:
    Thank you for all of this but especially the bolded. Good bar karma kept me from saying anything the last few days (especially when she was using PgAL as her personal Crazy Train) but I was seriously wanting to stab my eyes out every time I read " can u tell me .......r these .....massivetypomisspelledword.....thank u..."

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    Yeaaaahhh....OP Pink Camino has been an amazing friend to me both on the board and in real life so you'll find no support here after being a twat to her.

    I have never ever, in lurking or in my 5 months as PgAL, seen someone post here highlighting their bfn; that's a first.
    By what the TTCAL ladies have outlined it sounds like you have no business TTC in the first place. Don't let the door hit you on the way out.
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    (((TTCAL))) I'm so sorry ladies. I love you all.

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    (((TTCAL))) I'm so sorry ladies. I love you all.
    This. I'm so sorry you had to deal with that crazy.
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    So these ladies aren't "bitches" like we are hunh???
    :^o
    Ugh Pink I just read through that thread. She's a self centered asshat. ((hugs)) love

    @Panther422516 We all know this process sucks, but you've lost a lot respect by treating  TTCAL the way you did. Most of us started on that board and we love those women something fierce. Personally, I won't be a cheerleader for ANYone who acts that way and you can bet I won't be one to forget who you are. 

    You owe them an apology. And you need a reality check along with a personality makeover.
    All of this...those ladies on TTCAL will always be special to me, and you really owe them a huge apology.
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    awwwwww guys, thank you :) Love you all!
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    So these ladies aren't "bitches" like we are hunh???
    :^o
    What the??! (((((Hugs TTCAL ladies)))))

     

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    Wow, I understand you have a lot going on and it's a stressful time.  However, I think you need to take a step back and really get things in order before you move forward with this process.  I do wish you luck in wherever things take you... but you owe the ladies of TTCAL an apology!  That is an amazing, supportive group of women and they don't deserve to be dumped on by anyone.
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    I wasn't even going to acknowledge your post with a response but I just can't help myself.  You may be a lovely person but your behavior over the past few days is despicable.  I understand that you must be upset at your current bfn but that does not give you the right to treat others the way you did on TTCAL and tbh I think I speak for most people here when I say I really wasn't sitting by the computer waiting for your pee stick results.  I wish you all the best in your future endeavors but just know you lost your shot at a lot of support from some wonderful women on these two boards with your immature behavior.  
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    Yeah, not surprised by any of this. at. all.
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    What the actual f**k?  I'm both astonished and raging after reading the TTCAL thread.  I'm so very sorry you TTCAL ladies had to put up with that crap.  I didn't spend a lot of time on TTCAL, but I appreciated the supportive nature of everyone there, something that panther clearly lacks and doesn't understand.

    Holy f**k balls I just want to reach through the screen and slap her!

    Pink, you're a doll, I hope you didn't let this assclown get to you.

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    Sorry that the TTCAL ladies had to deal with this insensitivity and nonsense. This is quite ridiculous. 
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