I have been on the bump for a little bit but only recently discovered the community boards. I was lurking for parenting tips and such and then a week ago the world changed forever. My sister 24 weeks pregnant with twin boys went into labor. the doctors tried everything and could not stop it and both babies passed. I feel so many emotions and find myself burying these feelings because they are secondary to the pain I feel for what her and her husband are going through. My friends try to talk to me about it but I do not feel like it is my story to tell. i want to respect my sister (who is a very private person) and let her tell her story when she is ready. I feel like the experience is sacred to her right now and I would be violating a trust by talking about it. I have questions and concerns and just didn't know if this was a place I could ask some of my questions. I am not sure I am even ready at this point but have the utmost respect for this board and want to make sure it was ok.