March 2014 Moms
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Goodbye and good luck

Went for a follow up ultra sound after only seeing the gestational and yolk sac two weeks ago. The pregnancy had not progressed and there was a sac of blood next to the yolk sac. Having a d&c tomorrow. This was my 1st pregnancy and my 1st miscarriage an I don't know how to deal with it. I'm numb and crying a lot. My husband is trying to make me feel better. Hopefully I'll be here again. Good luck I hope you all have healthy pregnancies. I've loved getting to know you all

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    kali55kali55 member
    I am so sorry for your loss.  Sending my T&Ps


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    I'm so sorry for your loss.  Take good care of yourself, big hugs.
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    I am so, so sorry for your loss.  Take some time for you & your husband, & I hope you're back here quickly.
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    I'm so sorry, hon.
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    Oh no! I'm so sorry to hear this. Take care of yourself and I'm sure you'll be back with a sticky baby soon. There are boards that can lend you support for loss and for ttc after loss. Maybe you can find some good support there.
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    I am so very sorry for your loss.  Thinking about you.



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    So sorry for your loss. Take time for yourself. T & P for you and your husband.
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    So very sorry you are having to go through this :(

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    In so very sorry to hear this. Take care of yourself. Big hugs!

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    jbellejbelle member
    I'm so, so sorry.

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    So sorry for your loss.
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    I'm very sorry for your loss. Sending hugs and thoughts.

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    I'm so sorry for your loss. Take some time, just you and your husband. Emotional healing is the toughest part, but it will slowly get better.
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    I'm so sorry you are going through this. Take care of yourself. Take as much time off work as you need. 

    After my mmc and D&C I tried rushing back into things too quickly...just take time for yourself! 
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    I am so so sorry. :(
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    I'm so sorry for your loss. T&P your way
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    So sorry for your loss
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    So so sorry for your loss!!!
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    I am so sorry for your loss.

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    I am sorry for your loss thoughts and prayers for your family
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    I am so sorry for your loss. T&P
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    ellajune2012ellajune2012 member
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    I am so sorry.

    Just let yourself feel however you do... there's no "right" or "wrong" way to grieve. It just sucks. ((hugs))
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    I am so sorry to hear this.  I've been where you are and nothing makes it better.  Now, 3 years looking back, it still makes me a little sad, but that's normal.  Did you have a blighted Ovum?  If yes, just keep in mind that it only (almost always) occurs once in a woman's life. So stay positive:)  When you're ready to try again, it will be ok!  T&P's for you and hubby!
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    I'm so sorry.

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    So sorry!  Losses are hard.  Keep in mind there's nothing that you could have done differently and make sure you don't blame yourself.  The loss boards are a great resource.  Hugs. 
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    So very sorry for your loss. T&P are with you.

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    So sorry for your loss, sending prayers your way.
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    I'm so sorry for your loss... take time to heal physically and emotionally and make sure if you need help don't be ashamed to ask for it. When I lost my first pregnancy I tried to hide my pain which really was not healthy for me and also DH. Sending you T&P and also your DH.
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    I'm so very sorry for your loss. The miscarriage/loss board saved me when I went through this. TTCAL is also good when you're ready to try again. T&P for you and your DH.
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    So sorry for your loss.
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    I'm so sorry. :-/
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    So sorry for your loss... :(

    I was in your shoes last year, had a d&c after we discovered a miscarriage in October. It's a very difficult time and it takes time to heal. The miscarriage/loss board is a great place for support. There are so many women that go through this so it's nice to talk to someone who has been through it. Just keep reassuring yourself that life goes on and when you're ready you can try again. For me it was encouraging to hear that miscarriages are not rare, so the chance of having a successful pregnancy in the future is quite good. I'll keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

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    So sorry :(
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    So sorry! T&P for you!

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    I am so sorry for your loss. I also had a missed miscarriage/blighted ovum and D&C. If you have any questions, feel free to PM me.

    Also, once you feel comfortable, may I suggest the TTCAL board? It is filled with so many supportive, amazing women in all stages after loss until pregnancy (at which time they graduate to PGAL). They really helped me through my toughest days and it is a wonderful sense of community. I recommend lurking and reading their blog first to make sure it is a good fit.

    Sending big hugs!
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