Went for a follow up ultra sound after only seeing the gestational and yolk sac two weeks ago. The pregnancy had not progressed and there was a sac of blood next to the yolk sac. Having a d&c tomorrow. This was my 1st pregnancy and my 1st miscarriage an I don't know how to deal with it. I'm numb and crying a lot. My husband is trying to make me feel better. Hopefully I'll be here again. Good luck I hope you all have healthy pregnancies. I've loved getting to know you all
Oh no! I'm so sorry to hear this. Take care of yourself and I'm sure you'll be back with a sticky baby soon. There are boards that can lend you support for loss and for ttc after loss. Maybe you can find some good support there.
I'm 36; DS 14; DS 12; DD 9; SD 15; SD 9 and DH 37 BFP July 10, 2013 and EDD march 18, 2014. Left ovarian cyst and right unicornuate uterus (will likely be treated high risk again)
I am so sorry to hear this. I've been where you are and nothing makes it better. Now, 3 years looking back, it still makes me a little sad, but that's normal. Did you have a blighted Ovum? If yes, just keep in mind that it only (almost always) occurs once in a woman's life. So stay positive:) When you're ready to try again, it will be ok! T&P's for you and hubby!
So sorry! Losses are hard. Keep in mind there's nothing that you could have done differently and make sure you don't blame yourself. The loss boards are a great resource. Hugs.
Me and my Kiwi, both 38. We struggled with RPL and were blessed with Micah. I'm a full custody stepmom to Ethan!
I'm so sorry for your loss... take time to heal physically and emotionally and make sure if you need help don't be ashamed to ask for it. When I lost my first pregnancy I tried to hide my pain which really was not healthy for me and also DH. Sending you T&P and also your DH.
Nickie
Proud Cloth Diapering, Babywearing Mommy to Desmond (5.30.2011)
and Evangeline (2.26.2014)
Loving wife, best friend and teammate to Babywearing Daddy, Kelly (7.27.2000)
I'm so very sorry for your loss. The miscarriage/loss board saved me when I went through this. TTCAL is also good when you're ready to try again. T&P for you and your DH.
Married my love 6/11/11 | MMC 10/11/11 | Eliza Frances born 9/18/12 | Rhett Garland born 2/24/14
I was in your shoes last year, had a d&c after we discovered a miscarriage in October. It's a very difficult time and it takes time to heal. The miscarriage/loss board is a great place for support. There are so many women that go through this so it's nice to talk to someone who has been through it. Just keep reassuring yourself that life goes on and when you're ready you can try again. For me it was encouraging to hear that miscarriages are not rare, so the chance of having a successful pregnancy in the future is quite good. I'll keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
I am so sorry for your loss. I also had a missed miscarriage/blighted ovum and D&C. If you have any questions, feel free to PM me.
Also, once you feel comfortable, may I suggest the TTCAL board? It is filled with so many supportive, amazing women in all stages after loss until pregnancy (at which time they graduate to PGAL). They really helped me through my toughest days and it is a wonderful sense of community. I recommend lurking and reading their blog first to make sure it is a good fit.
Sending big hugs!
TTC #1 as of Feb. 2013
BFP on Mar. 4, 2013, DX with MMC (blighted ovum) at 8 weeks, D&C
TTC again as of May 2013
BFP on June 24, 2013, EED March 12, 2014
Diagnosed with endometriosis, PCOS, heterozygous MTHFR and positive for ANA
Re: Goodbye and good luck
My Pregnancy/Parenting BLOG TTC since 5/2011, BFP #1 12/3/11, M/C 12/7/11 @ 4wks 2d. Began seeing RE Sep 2012. October 2012 Metformin 1500 mg= ovulation on CD34 BFP#2 11/14/12 9DPO, EDD 7/26/13, DX Gestational Diabetes @14 wks, our angel born sleeping 3/24/13 @ 22wks 2d. BFP #3 7/4/13 8DPO EDD 3/22/14, DX Gestational Diabetes @14 wks. started insulin @16 wks. Our rainbow, born 3/19/14 @ 39wks 6d., we're so in love!
I'm 36; DS 14; DS 12; DD 9; SD 15; SD 9 and DH 37
BFP July 10, 2013 and EDD march 18, 2014.
Left ovarian cyst and right unicornuate uterus (will likely be treated high risk again)
So very sorry you are having to go through this
Engaged 12-12-10 Married 5-12-12 Baby Jaxon 3-23-14
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AMA & SAIF. TTC #1 since Oct. 2010. DX: Unexplained. BFP on break after 32 months trying and 2 med cycles. Baby girl born at 40w0d!
jbelle
Thoughts and prayers
Make a pregnancy ticker
Just let yourself feel however you do... there's no "right" or "wrong" way to grieve. It just sucks. ((hugs))
BFP with #1 (twins!) 11/18/2011 - missed m/c at 8weeks3days; d&c 1/19/2012; myomectomy to remove 18cm+,10cm & 5cm fibroids 4/2012; TTC again 7/2012; BFP #2 (twins) 11/13/2012; missed m/c at 7weeks;
BFP #3: baby girl born 3/5/2014
Balaustine: an anthology about wanting family
DD 1/3/2012
BFP 5/21/2013 MC 5/24/2013
BFP 7/16/2013 EDD 3/27/2014
Proud Cloth Diapering, Babywearing Mommy to Desmond (5.30.2011) and Evangeline (2.26.2014)
Loving wife, best friend and teammate to Babywearing Daddy, Kelly (7.27.2000)
Volunteer Babywearing Educator at Babywearing International of South Central Pennsylvania
Married my love 6/11/11 | MMC 10/11/11 | Eliza Frances born 9/18/12 | Rhett Garland born 2/24/14
I was in your shoes last year, had a d&c after we discovered a miscarriage in October. It's a very difficult time and it takes time to heal. The miscarriage/loss board is a great place for support. There are so many women that go through this so it's nice to talk to someone who has been through it. Just keep reassuring yourself that life goes on and when you're ready you can try again. For me it was encouraging to hear that miscarriages are not rare, so the chance of having a successful pregnancy in the future is quite good. I'll keep you in my thoughts and prayers.
Also, once you feel comfortable, may I suggest the TTCAL board? It is filled with so many supportive, amazing women in all stages after loss until pregnancy (at which time they graduate to PGAL). They really helped me through my toughest days and it is a wonderful sense of community. I recommend lurking and reading their blog first to make sure it is a good fit.
Sending big hugs!
BFP on Mar. 4, 2013, DX with MMC (blighted ovum) at 8 weeks, D&C
TTC again as of May 2013
BFP on June 24, 2013, EED March 12, 2014
Diagnosed with endometriosis, PCOS, heterozygous MTHFR and positive for ANA
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