My husband has a pregnant soldier and bc she doesn't have a vehicle he is required to take her to each of her appointments. She is a married soldier and doesn't have a driver's license. Her husband is stationed in another state and she lives in the barracks. The baby's father is a civilian. DH is not allotted the time to go to any of our LO's appointments. I understand "taking care of soldiers" but at what point is she going to "woman up" and take care of herself? The base she works on doesn't have a OB so DH takes her to another base to see her doctor. Because her base doesn't have an OB there is a shuttle that will take her to her doctor, but DH is still told to take her. Would this bother you? I'm just wondering how this girl is going to support her child and will my husband be required to take the child to it's doctors appointments too? Thoughts ?
BFP #1 11/07/2012 EDD 07/09/2013 M/C 11/22/2012
BFP #2 02/05/2013 EDD 09/19/2013
Arrived via c-section 09/27/2013