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how long did u wait

Ladies.....hello I posted something yesterday about blogs I know some of u ansswered but anyway ...
My question is how long did u wait to test....its killing me to wait a week still to see if my period comes....but I don't want to test tomorrow at 10dpo and be disapointed either or have to still wait till thu or fir and test again....ahahah I hate waiting.


Thanks in advance for any input I don't want to post on the ttcal board and hurt or upset anyone

Re: how long did u wait

  • edited July 2013
    I got my BFP at 9 DPO, and thank you for not posting this on TTCAL.
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    I got my positive at 9 dpo and a neg at 8 dpo. Good luck!!
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  • I got my BFP at 12 DPO. I would have waited longer to test but had some pee pushers egging me on haha.

  • I tested at 8 DPO, which was just dumb, and I knew it at the time.  I tested again at 10 DPO and had a faint positive on a wondfo, and very clear positives on FRER and CBE digital.
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  • Did u use good brand or dollar store?
  • I got mine at 11dpo. I don't use flat store ones, they aren't supposed to be used, in most cases, too after your missed period. You could probably test tomorrow, with first morning urine. I've got my fingers crossed for you. You helped me a bit after my loss, and I definitely remember you. Let us know!
  • Mine was a surprise and u wasnt charting, but since my boyfriend works out of town, I know which weekend it was. I was 7 or 8 dpo, but I started with twins so my numbers were higher.
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  • I got a very strong positive at 13 dpo. I only tested because I had a bacholorette party to go to and I wanted to see if I could drink. Otherwise I would have waited to see if I missed my period.
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  • I didn't get my BFP until 13DPO.
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  • I got my positive at 9 dpo and a neg at 8 dpo. Good luck!!

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    The wait got to me this last time.  I tested at 10dpo (first a.m. urine) and got a BFP.  Tested again after 14dpo just to make sure.  Yep, BFP!  Good luck!

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  • I tested at 9dpo and got a squinter.  I don't recommend  doing that because I would have beat my self up if it had been a bfn.  I used a FRER and a Wondfo with FMU.



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  • I waited until 14 DPO and got a very clear positive right away. Glad I waited.
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  • I waited until the day my period was due.  I think it was 13dpo.
  • My first two pregnancies I got squinters at 9 DPO. This one I had negatives all the way til 12 DPO.
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  • I was 12dpo when I got a good solid BFP.
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    I got my BFP (a squinter) at 10DPO with this pregnancy. Good luck OP!


  • I didn't get my BFP until 13DPO, they had been negative up until then.
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  • My RE suggested to wait until CD34. The positive was very clear at that point.
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  • kklamb10 said:

    I waited until the day AF was due so 14 or 15 DPO. FF kept changing my O date. I was convinced it wasn't my cycle and had quit temping about 5dpo. I decided to temp the morning I got my BFP and only peed on a stick because my temp was way (a full degree) higher than I thought it was going to be.

    I can't remember but are you charting this cycle? If you're not I would try to wait because you can't be sure of when you O'd so it's entirely possible you would test and get a BFN but it could just be to early.

    No ikm not charting or anything just started ff.....I took dollar store brand(which I hate ) last night was a bfn....which was good I was drinking at my cousing grad party....and I have to work next 3 days so won't be able to get to store till thur......so oh well have to wait

  • I got mine at 11dpo. I don't use flat store ones, they aren't supposed to be used, in most cases, too after your missed period. You could probably test tomorrow, with first morning urine. I've got my fingers crossed for you. You helped me a bit after my loss, and I definitely remember you. Let us know!



    I remember u too! Thanks for the info!.....I have to wait I work next 3 days won't get to the store woth my crasy hours...I tested last night like a dummy...with crappy dollar store brand. I've never used those before. I'm glad I could help u in past.....so does this mean u transitioned or r u lurkign? I hope the best forr u!
  • Thanks everyone!!! Ill have to get back to u Thursday or fri. :(
  • I don't test, but to clarify, I did an IUI, so I went in for a blood test at 14dpo. I hate to see negatives! GL to you!

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  • I was a chicken and didn't test until after my + beta!  So that put me at 16dpo.  Good luck OP!
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  • I got a bfn on 9 DPO and a BFP on 11 DPO, so I'd definitely suggest waiting until at least 10-11-12 DPO to save yourself from a false negative. Had I not gotten sick the night before, I never would have taken that 11 DPO test honestly. But DH was pushing me the next morning so I gave in. I think he was more anxious than I was ;-)

    And I 2nd the thanks for not posting on TTCAL. Those ladies are so awesome, I'm glad you realized it would be hurtful. I wish others would be that mindful sometimes . . .
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  • I tested at 12dpo and got a positive
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  • I got my BFP on 8DPO.  I was going to wait until 9 since that is when I got it last time, but I was very very tired and my curiosity got the best of me.  It was a squinter on the wondfo but it was faint but clearly visible on the FRER.
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  • Panther, I got a positive just over a week ago. I'm here, and hoping I get to stay. I've got my fingers crossed for you!

  • Panther, I got a positive just over a week ago. I'm here, and hoping I get to stay. I've got my fingers crossed for you!



    How wonderful!!!!! I'm so happy for u and good luck got my finger scrossed for u! how exciting
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  • It was really hard to wait but at 14 dpo I tested and got a faint positive. Had a blood test the next day and came back at 81 but the brand of hpt wasent as sensitive as others. Check the sensitivity of the test before getting your hopes up.
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    What do u mean by the sensativity of the brand
  • Tests only register after there's a certain level of hcg in your urine. Every test is different. Some tests won't register before you miss your period, others do. Read the labels. :)
  • I was 11 dpo. Goodluck!
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  • Tink
    What do u mean by the sensativity of the brand

    Tests only register after there's a certain level of hcg in your urine. Every test is different. Some tests won't register before you miss your period, others do. Read the labels. :)


    Ok thanks that's what I reaD on the dollar store brand after I had taken 2 tests I thought what a waste of a couple bucks
  • With my DD,  I tested 8dpiui and got a faint positive  
    This pregnancy I was 8dpo and got a super faint positive.  I'm a POAS-aholic and like to watch the line get darker and have NO willpower to wait.  

    Ironically, the internet cheapie had a faint line 24 hours before the FRER.  
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