Pregnant?!

edab29

Thank you

Twinkie0612

I'm on BCP for my upcoming IVF cycle and I have been spotting for a week and a half. Spotting and breakthrough bleeding can happen on the pill, it's normal. It can even be normal to miss a "period" while on BCP. You took a test and it was negative, you are not pregnant.

sourapplemartini

GhostMonkey said:

I really wish I had it in me to believe people cannot possibly be this fucking stupid.

Right?

JemmaWRX

If you are on BC, taking it correctly, and got a negative test, it's highly unlikely you would turn out KU.  FWIW when I was on BCPs I almost always had 5 days of light to moderate flow.  But there were a handful of times though where I had 2 days of light flow, and that was that.  This is normal. 

 

sourapplemartini

GhostMonkey said:

I really wish I had it in me to believe people cannot possibly be this fucking stupid.

And YOU'VE been reported! Who is this person!?!

MrsShrek1028

sourapplemartini said:

GhostMonkey said:

I really wish I had it in me to believe people cannot possibly be this fucking stupid.

And YOU'VE been reported! Who is this person!?!

how can you tell she was reported?

sourapplemartini

sourapplemartini said:

GhostMonkey said:

I really wish I had it in me to believe people cannot possibly be this fucking stupid.

And YOU'VE been reported! Who is this person!?!

how can you tell she was reported?

Look under her post. There's an avatar with something that looks like a waterdrop.

MrsShrek1028

thanks!

now how the fuck do I tag someone in a post?

MrsShrek1028

thanks carseat

sugarland726

Oh shit. @GhostMonkey, I lurk on BOTB sometimes and I was nosy about who flagged you. I clicked on it and accidentally flagged you a second time! Fuck. I am so sorry, it was entirely unintentional (and frankly, I agree with your statement). Again, I apologize.

sugarland726

GhostMonkey said:

sugarland726 said:

Oh shit. @GhostMonkey, I lurk on BOTB sometimes and I was nosy about who flagged you. I clicked on it and accidentally flagged you a second time! Fuck. I am so sorry, it was entirely unintentional (and frankly, I agree with your statement). Again, I apologize.

If you click the flag again, it should go away.

Done, thanks! (and now I can't seem to get out of your quote box).

rjeller32

edab29 said:

Thank you

Why did you change the post OP?

edab29

I erased it Because the responses didnt quite help, so it was worthless to leave it up.

BallSox

edab29 said:

I erased it Because the responses didnt quite help, so it was worthless to leave it up.

Translation:  People pointed out the fallacy in my thinking and I am too embarrassed to admit that I didn't know better. 

TeeJ526

Gotta start doing it like they do it on TTGP. Someone has to quote the OP so that even if the text is deleted, someone can still read what OP wrote.

cohjbaker

Wow.

My friend pointed me to this board to show me how big of dicks people are on these message boards. I am so shocked that these people are mothers or trying to be mothers. I gathered what your post was from all the shitty comments and I just wanted to apologize that caddy bitches made you feel like you had to erase your question. Its hard and draining trying to get pregnant. I tried for years and finally had my daughter thru in vitro. If anyone talked to me like this because i thought that maybe a negative test was wrong I would have cried. And to be honest there are enough tears in this process that you don't need be drug thru the mud by people you turn to for advise.

Kristinmo

cohjbaker said:

Wow.

My friend pointed me to this board to show me how big of dicks people are on these message boards. I am so shocked that these people are mothers or trying to be mothers. I gathered what your post was from all the shitty comments and I just wanted to apologize that caddy bitches made you feel like you had to erase your question. Its hard and draining trying to get pregnant. I tried for years and finally had my daughter thru in vitro. If anyone talked to me like this because i thought that maybe a negative test was wrong I would have cried. And to be honest there are enough tears in this process that you don't need be drug thru the mud by people you turn to for advise.

Her situation is nothing like yours.  She is not trying to get pregnant.  She is on the pill and got a negative pregnancy test.  What should we have said?

PinkCamino

cohjbaker said:

Wow.

My friend pointed me to this board to show me how big of dicks people are on these message boards. I am so shocked that these people are mothers or trying to be mothers. I gathered what your post was from all the shitty comments and I just wanted to apologize that caddy bitches made you feel like you had to erase your question. Its hard and draining trying to get pregnant. I tried for years and finally had my daughter thru in vitro. If anyone talked to me like this because i thought that maybe a negative test was wrong I would have cried. And to be honest there are enough tears in this process that you don't need be drug thru the mud by people you turn to for advise.

L-)

hence, the reasoning behind all these answers.

FFS do you know how annoying it is to be asked repeatedly if an OP "might" be pregnant?

burybuck0489

I'm newer on TB but it sounds almost like the boy who cried wolf... "am i pregnant am i pregnant am i pregnant" quit wasting the time of people who do not know you or your body and go to a doctor and find out. 

JemmaWRX

hischelseababy said:

Wow.

My friend pointed me to this board to show me how big of dicks people are on these message boards. I am so shocked that these people are mothers or trying to be mothers. I gathered what your post was from all the shitty comments and I just wanted to apologize that caddy bitches made you feel like you had to erase your question. Its hard and draining trying to get pregnant. I tried for years and finally had my daughter thru in vitro. If anyone talked to me like this because i thought that maybe a negative test was wrong I would have cried. And to be honest there are enough tears in this process that you don't need be drug thru the mud by people you turn to for advise.

You are absolutely right. Everybody should have told her that the negative pregnancy test was wrong and that she was pregnant even though she was on BC. That way she could have gotten her hopes up and kept on believing that she was pregnant. Maybe she would have told all her friends and family that she was going to have a baby. Then, when she got her period she could think that she was having a miscarriage. That would have obviously been kinder than telling her the truth without sugar coating it.

This!  Personally I think a dose of reality is nicer than giving someone false hope.  But I'm just a "caddy bitch" like that.

rainbowmkr1979

cohjbaker said:

Wow.

My friend pointed me to this board to show me how big of dicks people are on these message boards. I am so shocked that these people are mothers or trying to be mothers. I gathered what your post was from all the shitty comments and I just wanted to apologize that caddy bitches made you feel like you had to erase your question. Its hard and draining trying to get pregnant. I tried for years and finally had my daughter thru in vitro. If anyone talked to me like this because i thought that maybe a negative test was wrong I would have cried. And to be honest there are enough tears in this process that you don't need be drug thru the mud by people you turn to for advise.

"And to be honest there are enough tears in this process that you don't need be drug thru the mud by people you turn to for advise."

Well said.

JemmaWRX

rainbowmkr1979 said:

cohjbaker said:

Wow.

My friend pointed me to this board to show me how big of dicks people are on these message boards. I am so shocked that these people are mothers or trying to be mothers. I gathered what your post was from all the shitty comments and I just wanted to apologize that caddy bitches made you feel like you had to erase your question. Its hard and draining trying to get pregnant. I tried for years and finally had my daughter thru in vitro. If anyone talked to me like this because i thought that maybe a negative test was wrong I would have cried. And to be honest there are enough tears in this process that you don't need be drug thru the mud by people you turn to for advise.

"And to be honest there are enough tears in this process that you don't need be drug thru the mud by people you turn to for advise."

Well said.

Just out of curiosity @rainbowmkr1979, what would you have told the OP?  This isn't snarky or mean, I actually just want to know.  Do you believe it's better to tell someone who clearly isn't pregnant that there's a shot she is?  Or is it better to be honest and realistic?

TeeJ526

rainbowmkr1979 said:

cohjbaker said:

Wow.

My friend pointed me to this board to show me how big of dicks people are on these message boards. I am so shocked that these people are mothers or trying to be mothers. I gathered what your post was from all the shitty comments and I just wanted to apologize that caddy bitches made you feel like you had to erase your question. Its hard and draining trying to get pregnant. I tried for years and finally had my daughter thru in vitro. If anyone talked to me like this because i thought that maybe a negative test was wrong I would have cried. And to be honest there are enough tears in this process that you don't need be drug thru the mud by people you turn to for advise.

"And to be honest there are enough tears in this process that you don't need be drug thru the mud by people you turn to for advise."

Well said.

You know, you don't need to hit the quote button and copy and paste what you meant to quote. You can just hit the quote button, highlight what you want to reference and hit the "B" icon to make it bold. Just an FYI for ya.

rainbowmkr1979

TeeJ526 said:

rainbowmkr1979 said:

cohjbaker said:

Wow.

My friend pointed me to this board to show me how big of dicks people are on these message boards. I am so shocked that these people are mothers or trying to be mothers. I gathered what your post was from all the shitty comments and I just wanted to apologize that caddy bitches made you feel like you had to erase your question. Its hard and draining trying to get pregnant. I tried for years and finally had my daughter thru in vitro. If anyone talked to me like this because i thought that maybe a negative test was wrong I would have cried. And to be honest there are enough tears in this process that you don't need be drug thru the mud by people you turn to for advise.

"And to be honest there are enough tears in this process that you don't need be drug thru the mud by people you turn to for advise."

Well said.

You know, you don't need to hit the quote button and copy and paste what you meant to quote. You can just hit the quote button, highlight what you want to reference and hit the "B" icon to make it bold. Just an FYI for ya.

You're right and i wish i could... Oh if only my iPad would let me do that nifty move :-(

rjeller32

GhostMonkey said:

rainbowmkr1979 said:

cohjbaker said:

Wow.

My friend pointed me to this board to show me how big of dicks people are on these message boards. I am so shocked that these people are mothers or trying to be mothers. I gathered what your post was from all the shitty comments and I just wanted to apologize that caddy bitches made you feel like you had to erase your question. Its hard and draining trying to get pregnant. I tried for years and finally had my daughter thru in vitro. If anyone talked to me like this because i thought that maybe a negative test was wrong I would have cried. And to be honest there are enough tears in this process that you don't need be drug thru the mud by people you turn to for advise.

"And to be honest there are enough tears in this process that you don't need be drug thru the mud by people you turn to for advise."

Well said.

Shut up, shut up, shut the mother fucking fuck up.

Why do you come here when you hate everyone here? Are you that much of a pathetic martyr?

Thought I would reiterate GM.