Perception

syeqik

First off let me say hi to all. Never posted on this board before so I appreciate any recommendations/thoughts. Here we go.. I have been with so for three years. I have three kids and he has one. Well we have been living together since May but my two kids have been with their dad all summer but will be returning for school soon. At first he.was excited about us all living together but now he is like im under alot.(life changes, finances , job issues etc) and he has had an attitude and been grouchy lately. he is saying now that he would rather we just stay sometimes as he is under alot and would be grouchy further as our home is small and he wants to get a bigger place first to have more space. I really dont know what to make of this. My kids always come first. He says we just need a bigger place so we can all have space. He says kids and adults need.to.be able to have space esp when getting off work. Tell me.how you perceive this. No matter what he is last priority. Thanks. Sorry for long post.