When I was in college I used to always see ads for companies seeking egg donors. I have heard stories of women who paid for college, homes, or trips around the world by selling their eggs. The idea intrigued me, but I was never in a position where it was a necessary consideration.
Now that I have a little one, I don't look at it the same way. I have seen what just one of my little eggs can grow into. I would not be opposed to donating my eggs to a family member or close friend, but I know I could not do it now for cash.
What do you think? Did you ever think about it before, what do you think about it now that you are a mom?
Re: Poll: Egg Donation
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I would do it either way. My son is an unbelievable gift and if I could help someone else receive that gift as well. I can't explain how happy that would make me. But I would probably think about doing it after I am done having kids.
I honestly have never seen an add for something like that though.
You showed them!!
Exactly. I would only be a surrogate for immediate family. That is way too personal for me. I think even that decision would take a lot of time to make if the situation came up. You get so attached to the child growing inside you... I can't even think of that one. LOL!
BFP #2 12/31/2010 (EDD 9/1/11) -- Natrual m/c 1/9/10
BFP #3 12/20/2011 - EDD 8/25/12
u/s 1/6/12 - HB & beautiful bean
A/S 4/2 - It's a Girl!!!
RCS on 8/20/12
I wouldn't do it only because I've seen reports that show there's potential health problems that can arise from this (you're being pumped full of hormones) I don't really see anything wrong with the theory behind it though. No one thinks twice about men donating sperm. It's the same thing
I'm the exact opposite of you. I would NEVER have done it until now. Now that I have a baby and know this great love, I would donate eggs so someone else who can't use their own could know this joy.
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But my eggs aren't wanted, they are crappy. ?
Having done 2 IVFs and many months of other treatments, one egg donation would hardly be more harmful than recreational drugs, or even HRT, which many people do without thinking.
If I could, I would do it in a heartbeat. Unfortunately, I just don't produce enough eggs.