Hey if you've already been chosen I have two questions:
How long have you been waiting?
How far along (or what age) is the baby?
We aren't in that situation currently, but when we were chosen and waiting, we'd been waiting (officially) for six months. We got the call mid-September and were told e-mom was due the first week of November, so we thought she was about 7 mo. There was a lot of mix-ups on her due date (the first week of November HAD to be a clerical error, or the SW reading it wrong, or something), but DD was born the first week of DECEMBER. So she was about 6 mo. PG when she chose us.
HTH! Also, I send you a private message recently, but I've never done it on this board before, so I have no idea if it went through or not!
ETA: Whoops! Just checked my PMs and sent a reply to your reply!