ok so the doctors have all been saying that after 1 baby the rest are all a breeze because your body "remembers" what it is supposed to do.
Real people I've talked to do not all agree. They say the healing was worst and many say so was the delivery.
Please share your experiences!
Re: moms who delivered more than 1
In my experience, I'd have to say #2 was much easier. #1 was much more comfortable though.
With #1 my water broke at home. I couldn't handle the pain because I am a wuss. They gave me an epi at 1 cm. I dilated to 10 in 2 hours. Didn't feel a thing. 10 hours of labor.
With #2, I got to the hospital and was 2cm. I was in a lot of pain. I was begging for an epi. But, because they were full and I was only 2 cm, they were contemplating sending me home. I was not even admitted. I was in full labor in less than 2 hours. They had to hold the baby back until the doctor could get there. No epi! I only had to actually push once because my body was pushing on it's own while we were waiting on the doctor. The nurse and the doctor were completely surprised and very apologetic. I did labor at home for 2 days, but it was not painful until just before I got to the hospital. DS came in an hour and a half.
Recovery wise, With #1 it wasn't bad, but #2 was much easier. I was out shopping the day they discharged me. I could have gone home the next morning, but DS would have to wait since it was a Sunday and the pedi's office was closed. I was ready to go the day I delivered him.
2 was way easier, the first i had a 4th degree tear that reopened and required packing, the baby blues were nonexistant the second time too