Not for the shy or timid..

Califragilistic

OK LADIES....

when does the horniness kick in?! Im 13 weeks and nothing. No interest in sex. I just feel fat, ugly and tired. I feel bad for my guy of course but I am just so tired all the time I cant help but fall asleep before I can even think about going through the motions just to make him happy. When did it happen for you?? And was it like all the movies say haha

hula_lula

For me, about 14 seconds post BFP.

Pregnancy sex and I get along very well.

NDwife07

Wondering the same thing, as is my desperate DH.

jenlue

it never really hit me at all. just went back to normal after about 20wks.

katie110405

I'm sorry to say that it has not kicked in for me yet either and I'm not hopeful that it is going to happen.  DH is very understanding which makes it a little easier but not great.

eayode

I agree with Hula- mine was all throughout the first tri. It seems to be tapering off the larger I get...

mrsjazzsinger

My sex drive is back, but the whole 24/7 nausea thing and a UTI are putting a major damper on that

As far as other hormones, they seem to have exploded in the past week or two - I'm so much more emotional and moody as of late. Poor DH.

Kaar17

Sex is the last thing on my mind. Maybe once the kids are grown and out of house we'll have time to think about that.

puddleofgrace06

What sex drive?

Sarahb34743

Of course everyone is different BUT my sex drive never went away. I have spurts of omgi'mgonnaripeyourclothesoff feelings but not everyone gets the mega-horniness. But I agree with pp pregnancy sex is the best thing EVER. So much easier to climax.

Lulu0802

Probably around 18 or 19 weeks I felt more back to normal.  Every once in a while I'll get hit with crazy horniness and jump DH, but mostly it's just normal.  I'm also tired and feel fat all the time, so it usually only happens if we go to bed early or on the weekends.

Mandy Ellsworth

I didn't get it until after 23 weeks, then it just comes and goes. 

emclarenicks

My sex drive and I have become strangers....to my DH's dismay....it seems to be getting a little better though lately.  He goes away for the weekend for work, so I'm hoping the welcome home sex will kick start us!

Mumma2B

Lulu0802:

Probably around 18 or 19 weeks I felt more back to normal.  Every once in a while I'll get hit with crazy horniness and jump DH, but mostly it's just normal.  I'm also tired and feel fat all the time, so it usually only happens if we go to bed early or on the weekends.

I'm not quite 18 weeks.  But I agree 100% started in like this probably about week 15 when I was feeling better.

tugsgirl

Kaar17:

Sex is the last thing on my mind. Maybe once the kids are grown and out of house we'll have time to think about that.

 What she said.

jtimestwo

Mine is back, but I wouldn't say it's increased above pre-pregnancy levels. Though I will say when the mood hits -- it hits hard! And I'm totally with the PPs who mentioned mornings.

ETA: I think I was back to actually wanting sex vs. going through the motions sometime around 14-15 weeks.

Rockafellow2b

Still waiting...I haven't WANTED sex since the BFP. Poor DH.

LuvBug12683

puddleofgrace06:

What sex drive?

My dd is nearly 5 months old and I still dont have one ugh!

Mrs.Carlybella

for me right now the only thing i like about sex is that it happens so infrequently, that its quick when it does happen-   so not into it lately

b.a.girl

What?  Wait?  Its supposed to come back?  How come my body didn't get the memo??? 

JamieNIan

t takes me a min to warm up, but once warmed it's on!!!!

Mike&Care

Basically the day I hit 14 weeks (a few days ago) my sex drive came back. I have been so horny. Hubby has been lucky 3 days in a row now. LOL. Before that I had a yeast infection and no sex drive at all. We went about 10 days without it, which is the longest we've ever gone.

turtlegirl115

The only sex I'm having is in my crazy sex dreams! LOL Seriously, I think we've had sex 2x since BFP. I feel sorry for my DH but apparenly not sorry enough to do anything about it.