TTC After a Loss
BFN, again
AF is due 2 days from now and I got another BFN. Why am I still so convinced that I am pg!? I have no reason to other than my massive symptoms which are clearly just my mind playing tricks on me.
Ugh, why is this so hard? When I got pg before, we weren't trying, and I tested when I didn't get AF because I knew something was off.
I feel so stressed out and this is all I can think about (particularly because DH leaves in January for a bit and we'll only get 1 more chance before).
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Re: BFN, again
Hi there, I'm in the exact same boat as you. AF is due Tuesday and I've had plenty of symptoms that I can't ignore. I got a BFN this morning too. I'm 11 dpo which is probably still early...I know some people get positives that early and I wish I was one of them. I had talked myself out of testing today but when I took my temperature and saw such a big spike I just couldn't help myself.
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Good luck to you!! There is still hope for both of us
Do you have other symptoms? It looks like you got a positive last month as well. I hope this is your month!
I've had SO many symptoms... it is driving me nuts. Plus I used the CBEFM for the first time so I know our timing was good. I just don't know exactly when I O'd but I can only be off by 1 day at most, which would put me at 11DPO instead of 12. Either way, I've gotten BFN's for the last few days, and it is killing me since I feel like I am so sure I am pg!
Last month I had a chemical pregnancy; in July we found out our first pregnancy was ectopic. I've had a dull cramping/stitch for 5 days now and my boobs hurt occassionally (like right now - haha). My skin is broken out and I'm very tired (although I'm always tired). I'm kind of like you...I just feel like this was a good month and I just want the good news to come on! My best friend is 2 days late and not testing until tomorrow. I wish I had her willpower! It would be so awesome to get good news within a few days of one another!
Do you think you will test again before Tuesday? I may wait until tomorrow night. I ALWAYS get a headache the day before AF (in fact, that was a good indicator of being pg last time, there was no signature headache) so if there's no headache, I'll take that as a good sign and test, and if there is, then I'll cry a lot and feel like my mind/body played some huge tricks on me and move on to the next cycle!
I've had so much stretching/pulling from about 6DPO-10DPO and then last couple days, it's still there but not as much. I've been unbelievably starving the last few days, like needing to eat every 2-3 hours, skin breakout, very tired in afternoon/evening. If I am not pg, what on earth is going on
Yeah, I'm going to wait until Tuesday morning to test again. That's the day AF would be due and my temp always plummets the morning of day 28. The brightside of waiting a few more days is that our 2 year wedding anniversary is Tuesday and a + would be a fun present. The downside is that my husband leaves for AZ the rest of the week on Tuesday morning so we wouldn't be able to celebrate.
My cramping is also much better then a few days ago but still there mostly in the mornings.
I love having days off of work but because I'm not stressing over work I'm obsessing over the 2ww. Work would have at least kept my mind off of it!
I see you're in Falls Church...I'm not far from you. I'm about 20 miles south of Baltimore.
I know what you mean! I am off tomorrow. I think I'd rather go to work! I have such a feeling that I am pg, that if I am not, it's going to be such a huge disappointment. After the m/c in September, we didn't try nor prevent before AF came, and I know our timing was decent, and I definitely did not feel like I was pg and then AF arrived as usual... I had one or two symptoms but nothing major. This month is so much different. I'm actually surprised to see the BFN's, that's how confident I have been. Ugh. I don't know how to prepare myself for a huge letdown on Tuesday.
That's cool that you're in the area! How long have you lived here?
I so hope AF doesn't show up!
Best of luck
Sending baby dust your way...........................