We told DH parents that we are adopting. They are so excited which make me much more excited than I already was. We went out with them last night and I guess they had been talking about it constantly since we told them. My mother in law is already wanting to buy all the baby's furniture and help paint. I wasn't sure how they'd take it, (they have two grand baby's already) I knew they'd be happy for us but didn't expect that reaction. She told me that's all she's been thinking about. How sweet! Just wanted to share.
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that was our plan too, but it did not work out that way. I guess we were waiting for it to come up in conversation - which of course it did not.
We really have to tell them soon, I really don't want to call them and say, "hey, we are adopting (fost/adopt) and we just got our first placement yesterday"
I just don't want to do an official announcement, I would rather it just come up in conversation. So, we will see.
That brings me to tears!! This adoption process is new to me and its just beautiful how openly they accepted the idea. Congrats, I hope this makes it so much easier for you knowing you have a wonderful support system.
MyColonyNJ-lol. My side of the family knew right away but his family we told when we were matched with Khloe's birthmom--3 weeks before she was born. lol. They were excited-Khloe's is there only grandchild.
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That's wonderful. It makes it so much easier when you know you have the full support of your family. And let me tell you -- when the baby comes, there will be NO difference between your baby and their other grandchildren! Grandparents go CRAZY over those babies!! hahaha My parents say that they always "forget" that DD is even adopted, and the only thing that makes my mom remember that is realizing that I was never PG. haha
Thank you for all of the replies. It really is exciting. It got me all excited again. I go through stages because I know it's going to be a long road and I'm already impatient about it so I try not to even think about it but it has been hard the last few days.
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that was our plan too, but it did not work out that way. I guess we were waiting for it to come up in conversation - which of course it did not.
We really have to tell them soon, I really don't want to call them and say, "hey, we are adopting (fost/adopt) and we just got our first placement yesterday"
I just don't want to do an official announcement, I would rather it just come up in conversation. So, we will see.
I am glad you got a good reaction
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That is great!! It's so awesome how supportive families are
Yay for you guys! That's good.
MyColonyNJ-lol. My side of the family knew right away but his family we told when we were matched with Khloe's birthmom--3 weeks before she was born. lol. They were excited-Khloe's is there only grandchild.
That's great that they are excited for you and DH! Isn't it fun to share the news??
Congratulations!
Thank you for all of the replies. It really is exciting. It got me all excited again. I go through stages because I know it's going to be a long road and I'm already impatient about it so I try not to even think about it but it has been hard the last few days.