My MIL went on a tangent about pacifiers during our visit bc my BIL gave us one as a baby gift. I didn't realize she felt that strongly about not using them. Or that she felt she could mandate us not using them, lol. As a nanny I've worked for families that did and that did not. As FTM, DH and I haven't really thought about it. I think we'll just end up following AAP guidelines and see if the LO likes it. My MIL will freak, but luckily, it's not her kid. What about y'all? Have you gotten any feedback on your decision to use or not use if you've made one yet?
Do you plan to use a pacifier? 17 votes
Re: Do you plan to use a pacifier?
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I think it's one lf those things you have to play by ear. Maybe your kid will love it, maybe he won't. Apart from general security things (e.g. Don't throw you kid on the floor ), everything is a matter of personal choice, and some people take some of these choices way too at heart. As a child psychologist, I can tell you it takes a whole lot more than a pacifier to mess up a kid
Remind your family gently that you appreciate their tips,but would like to figure out what works for your new family.
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