i need help, we found out we are expecting , I was excited til we found out we are having twins. Now I'm rethinking this hole thing. I have one child she is 3 and married to a great husband and father , how ever I'm thinking I'm not feeling this pregnancy . So had anyone felt like this with there second? I know it's little late to think about it but what can I do to help me get over it.
Re: Second guessing this!
I agree that having even a single second child can feel overwelming. How can I have any more love for another child and then now you find out you are having two. That can definitely be scary. It will take a while to sink in but you can do it.
She had a hard time understanding how she'd still make time for her older child and she sincerely doubted she could love her second one as much as the first. However she laughs about it now because as soon as he came out everything changed and she completely fell in love!
There are so many things to think and stress about but like I said just remember your not alone and this is just another unplanned adventure you and your hubby and child are about to embark on! It will be very hard some days but completely worth it! And you have all of us to help you along the way!