I freaked out a week or two ago about what I assumed was FI cheating. Since then, I kicked him out and let him back home. We are all signed up for relationship counseling and we are finally discussing our problems instead of sweeping them under the rug. We have put "trying" to get pregnant on the back-burner, just NTNP for now.
I think you ladies are wonderful and you all offered me wonderful support during my time of need, and I would like to thank you for that.
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No more mushy-gushy stuff. But...
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Hysteroscopy 10/28/14 - septum removed
HSG 10/31/14 - All Clear!
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It sounds like you and your fiance have a lot on your plates, and I would want to be VERY sure my relationship was stable and nurturing before I brought a child into the mix. Just my .02
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I agree. With trying for almost a year, we never succeeded TGP. I am sure this is something we are going to cover in our counseling. I would never want to bring a child into an unstable environment.
Hysteroscopy 10/28/14 - septum removed
HSG 10/31/14 - All Clear!
DH: 45
BFP #1 3/19/14 EDD 11/29/14 MMC D&C 4/24/14
BFP #2 12/4/14 Beta #1 218 at 12dpo Beta #2 1055 at 16dpo
Saw heartbeat 12/29. Please be a rainbow.
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Glad you are working things out, and sorry for how long it is taking to get KTFU, but, by NTNP you very much are at risk for bringing a child into an unstable relationship at this time because, your relationship is, in fact, unstable.
Use protection. Get your shit together and then move forward. NTNP now is a BSC plan.
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Me: 31 DH: 29
DX (me): Inborn error of metabolism - protein restriction, metabolic formula & weekly blood tests
DNA Results (7/1): DH is NOT a carrier for my genetic disorder!
7/3: Metabolic clinic gave the green light to TTC - holy crap!
Signed, someone who got pregnant right at the 1 year mark.
Just my 2 cents. I'm not in your situation and I don't know the details but consider how permanently you are tied to a man once you have a child with him and ask yourself if you would be proud to have a son who treated his wife like your man treats you.
Good luck!!!
Hysteroscopy 10/28/14 - septum removed
HSG 10/31/14 - All Clear!