I am out. It was a miscarriage; blighted ovum. My "baby" stopped growing at five weeks. I will go in tomorrow for a D&C rather than deal with the emotional trauma of waiting for it to happen on its own. Some are strong enough, I am not.
Thank you for all of your kind words and well wishes. I wish all of you ladies and your little babies the best of luck.
I'm so sorry, and I understand the D&C. I went natural with my first m/c and it lasted 13 days and I had multiple trips to the OB, it was awful and painful. With my ectopic they offered the shot or to do a D&C and laparascopy so they could look inside anyways, I opted for the surgery because I knew the trauma I went through the first time around.
Me: 42, DH: 40; Surprise BFP 4/27/2011; no heartbeat at 9w3d, we miss you, Baby Manatee; D&C 6/1/2011; AF returned 6/26/2011; Ready to try for our take-home baby. 7/24/2011--BFP! Peanut born March 2012; BFP: 7/31/2013!; blighted ovum at 7 weeks 8/26/2013. Holy Cannoli! BFP 2/23/2014. EDD 11/6/2014!
I am so sorry for your loss. Having a d and c doesn't mean that you aren't strong. You are doing what's best for you right now and that is ok. You are in my thoughts and prayers.
Thank you all. It is the news I had been expecting but I think I might still be in shock. I am not cold-hearted; I cried once it was confirmed but now I feel like if I start crying again I won't be able to stop. We will start trying again once the time is right, but for now, we have a wedding to finish planning and be excited about. So I guess that's something...
Re: Well... update
DH: 45
BFP #1 3/19/14 EDD 11/29/14 MMC D&C 4/24/14
BFP #2 12/4/14 Beta #1 218 at 12dpo Beta #2 1055 at 16dpo
Saw heartbeat 12/29. Please be a rainbow.
All welcome
Me: 34; DH: 38; SD: 9
TTC #1 since November 2013
BFP #1: 2/4/14--EDD 10/14/14--CP 2/8/14
BFP #2: 3/1/14--EDD 11/15/14--MMC at 12w6d (baby stopped developing at 11w4d)
D&C 5/13/14; Retained Tissue Found: Cytotec 5/30/14; 2nd D&C 6/20/14
BFP #3: 12/13/14--EDD 8/27/15--MMC at 7 weeks (no fetal pole and measuring 1 1/2 weeks behind)--Cytotec 1/9/15
January 2015: Off to RE for RPL testing
Nov. '14 January Siggy : Work Sucks!
Me 32-DH 38
Married July 14, 2007 ----- TTC # 1 October 1, 2013
BFP March 7, 2014 ----- EDD November 17, 2014 ---- Baby boy born November 16, 2014
Me: 42, DH: 40; Surprise BFP 4/27/2011; no heartbeat at 9w3d, we miss you, Baby Manatee; D&C 6/1/2011; AF returned 6/26/2011; Ready to try for our take-home baby. 7/24/2011--BFP! Peanut born March 2012; BFP: 7/31/2013!; blighted ovum at 7 weeks 8/26/2013. Holy Cannoli! BFP 2/23/2014. EDD 11/6/2014!
Married 10/12
DS 11/14
Ectopic 2/16
PCOS/Ovulation Dysfunction 11/16
IUI x 3- BFN
Laparoscopy 3/17 Endo and tubal damage
IVF- 4/17- 40 eggs retrieved, 10 blasts, 7 pgs tested embryos
FET- 6/17- BFP!
Due Feb 15, 2017
ETA Doing the right thing for you is absolutely strong. Definitely don't get down on yourself for what is a hard decision no matter which way you go.
DD Born 11.27.2011
BFP 9.19.2013 - EDD 6.1.2014 - MMC @ 8 weeks 3 days
Healing vibes and Ts & Ps for a smooth procedure tomorrow.
BFP#4 3/17/14 - rainbow Baby BOY arrived 11/10/14 !!
DX: Uterine Septum - Resection 9/5/13 || MTHFR Hetero A1298C || My Chart
Logan born October 31, 2011
Praying unceasingly for a miracle. ALL welcome!
N14 November Siggy Challenge - Celebration
**TW Living Child**
BFP 2/2014 - DS - 10/2014