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differences in sex life

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I was curious as to evryones differences if any after their mc in sex life? Good,bad or the ugly....mine changed for the better. I was not really. Interested in sex before hand it was more of a choice of wam bam thank u mam.....now it much more involved more forplay ect.....much more ennjoyable
Is that weird? Thanks for your input
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    katib77katib77 member
    Our sex life was only effected the first two times after the m/c because it was on my mind and I could "get there" for a climax.  But then we've been having sex trying to have a baby for four years with infertility so our sex life is mainly sex for fun the last two years because we know the chance of conception naturally is so low.  We still have sex at least once in FW, but it's nice since there's no real pressure on our sex life anymore - it's almost always sex because we want it.  Only on treatment cycles when we're supposed to have sex the night of the trigger and night after IUI has it felt forced.  But as for what you're experiencing - my DH and I have always been fairly into foreplay.  Usually he gets my motor running from that so much that I'm the one that's like "Get on the damn bed and let me jump on top of you" whereas he still would be ok with making foreplay last longer.  But he likes seeing how much I can squirm and beg in anticipation.  

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    WifeofaComposerWifeofaComposer member

    Our sex life hasn't really changed much at all in the 3 years we've been together - we always have sex because we want it and it feels so good every time. After our losses, as soon as we got "the okay" from our doctors, we found a lot of comfort in the closeness. We do it at least 5 times per week.

    It's different for everyone, and what's normal for some isn't necessarily normal for others and vice versa.



     







     
              
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