Hi. I am almost 38, and I found out I was pregnant with #3. I have a 4yo and 2yo. My husband never wanted kids, but b/c he loved me, he agreed to our 2 planned pregnancies. He has had a rough time with things(demands of raising kids) since #2 arrived, and he ended up filing for divorce in Feb. When he told me about the divorce, I was devastated that night, and I forgot to take my BCP. He realized a week later, that it would be horrible to live apart and break up our family, so he decided not to go through with the divorce. Now, a few weeks later, I find out I am pregnant. He does not want the baby. He says it is over if I go through with the pregnancy. I don't want my kids to grow up w/o a father, but I never thought I could end a pregnancy. I am such a mess right now. I am 7weeks pregnant.
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Re: I really need your advice
Over-40 parents...what we lack in vigor, we make up for with cunning.
My heart goes out to you for what an awful time you are going through right now. I can't even imagine how much you must be hurting.
Listen. Even on BCP there is a chance of getting pregnant, so please don't beat yourself up over missing a d
Coming out from lurking....
I am so sorry. What a horrible thing for you to deal with.
This is a deeply personal decision and you will need to do some serious soul-searching before you decide anything.
Taking pro-life/choice out
~TTC since 01/09~
~SA & B/W - 06/09 - Normal~
~Encouraged by OB to "just keep trying" 06/09 - 06/10 (oh, the wasted time)~
~HSG - 08/10 - Clear/Normal~
~Lapo - 01/11 - Normal~
~Clomid 50mg, Trigger shot, Prometrium - 01/11, 02/11, 03/11~
~BFN - 02/11~
~IUI #1 03/15/11~
BFP 3/28/2011
Diagnosed with GD at 28 weeks. Controlled through diet and exercise. No insulin.
Diagnosed with Cholestasis of pregnancy @ 36 weeks.
Delivered via C-section @ 36 weeks on 11/9/11.
BFP #1 - missed m/c 4.18.11 found @8w3d, d&c @13w
BFP #2 blighted ovum found 8.2011 @8w, misoprostol
BFP#3 - missed m/c 6.11.12 @ 9w3d, d&c revealed extra chromosome 15
BFP#4 8.10.12, DD born 4/26/13
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I think all of the other ladies have given you very good advice. Truly this is your decision, one that you should highly consider what you want and what is right for your body, family ( you and the kids).
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I am so very sorry that you are having to deal with this. Other PP's have given great advice. I just wanted to let you know that a very dear, wonderful, amazing friend of mine that is like a sister to me had a similar situation. She a
I am extremely pro choice. If you didn't feel that you could deal with it, I would be saying to do what you feel is best. But pro-choice means exactly that. I am for women having a choice.
It sounds like your best choice is not to abort thi