DH and my birthday fail (VENT)

So, my birthday is tomorrow and it's not that I expect anything especially with a new baby and Christmas and the fact that someone volunteered this new mommy to host Christmas dinner at her house...

But, it kind of irritates me that TODAY my DH asks me what I want for my birthday and what I want to do.  Um....it's tomorrow and you haven't gotten anything or planned anything? Now, I have no idea what I want because I have already given the short list of things that I want to family members for Christmas and its almost a guarantee that I got everything on that list and DH won't stop bugging me about what I want...he said if I don't figure something out then he is going to go buy a gun and consider that my birthday, Christmas, and HIS Christmas....ugh...