He is driving me crazy!!!!! Everytime I say I am sick or tired he doesnt completely get it. He's like "suck it up" "oh your sick again - eye roll" "you felt fine to go out with your friend yesterday". I wish I could make him feel like this for one day then maybe he would understand. He really thinks I am milking it. Like yesterday when I was so sick from glucose test and having so much blood drawn, he was like - oh come on youve done this a few times now - its not that bad. If he tells me its not that bad one more time you may hear about me on TV - LOL!!!!
Anyone else have an unsympathetic H?
Re: Unsympathetic H?
Isabella Faith---Born 12/17/10 via c-section.
Abigail Marie---Born 11/16/12 via c-section
How about I worked 10 hours AND I'm growing a baby!
This. I bought a book for my husband too. It has helped A LOT, the book explains what could be going on with my emotions/body at each stage and he seems to enjoy reading it.
No, my husband is reading 2 books and is really into them. Everytime I say something, he responds, "Yeah my book says xxxx. You should xxxxx."
I try not to complain much but honestly, I cannot imagine being able to stay calm if he ever told me to suck it up.
This! Exactly.
UGHHH I have the same problem. Every time I tell him I'm tired or something I get the eye roll and he acts like I'm making all this up just to have an excuse to lay down, and reminds me that he just worked for 12 hours.
Although, I bought What To Expect When You're Expecting and marked off the chapter for dads and left it in the bathroom for him, and now it's getting better. I agree with the others, get some books so he can see that you're really not just being lazy, but it's really exhausting to make a baby!
OMG mine too. It's nice to know I'm not the only one.
Ha ha! I've put our baby book in the bathroom too! I always put anything I want my husband to read in there! He calls the bathroom "his office"