I had my D&C yesterday and when my sister asked me how it went - she also asked me if they did another ultrasound before the procedure to check one more time that it was not viable.
I got my positive test on May 1 which is 5 weeks after my last period. I had ultrasound on May 22nd (HCG level this day was 21k) that showed gestation sac, yolk sac and fetal pole - no heartbeat. 2 weeks later I had another ultrasound (HCG level this day was 78000) and it showed the same thing - no change. Went to a radiology center 4 days after that (HCG level was still at 78000) and he diagnosed it as a miscarriage. I thought that was enough for me to come to terms with having a non-viable pregnancy.
Now after my sister's comment -I'm wondering if they were wrong or something? Is this just a way of accepting this and my brain is doing mean things?