February 2013 Moms

Waiting for Sex?

Thursday is my 6 week PP check up and I'm pretty sure she'll clear me to have sex but I'm dreading it. I have zero sex drive and I know after nearly 2 months DH is dying to DTD. Is anyone else not excited to start having sex again?
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Re: Waiting for Sex?

  • It's not as bad as you think it will be.

    My MWs give me the clear to do it whenever I feel up for it, which was yesterday for DH and I.  My bleeding has stopped and I didn't have any tearing, so it wasn't painful at all - just a little uncom

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  • In my case, which I think is the norm, itis rather uncomfortable for the first few minutes, the first few times, but pp sex is the best!
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  • It's the finding the time to have sex that is the hardest. It's rare that we both are in the mood AND the baby is sleeping. As far as comfort, the first few times are uncomfortable but the more you do it, the better it gets lol!
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  • We only had sex twice the entire pregnancy because it was so painful for me because I was always swollen down there. I'm only nervous because its going to hurt a bit from not having sex for so long. However my SO deserves it for being so patient and my 6
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    I feel for you. I've been giving in because I feel bad. We used to have sex pretty much every day before DD and now I feel bad because he waited so long.
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  • It was SO much better than I expected! Didn't hurt, but I was a little sore afterward. It wasn't the greatest sex of my life, but whatever. Make sure you use lots of lube.

     

  • We didn't have any problems. It was pretty good, actually. We used lube and took it slow. Afterwards I was a little sore, but not bad at all.
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  • I feel you. I have had zero sex drive and it's annoying! I guess it's the hormones? I have my 6 week pp check today. We DTD once at around 4.5 weeks and didn't finish b/c it hurt and we didn't have lube.

    I am hoping that my sex drive will co
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  • I just had my PP appt today and got the ok. I'm definitely nervous, but DH has been so amazing and helpful and I know he's been counting down the days! I've heard wine and lots of lube, so I've made sure we have both. I AM looking forward to non-pregnant
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    We didn't have any problems. It was pretty good, actually. We used lube and took it slow. Afterwards I was a little
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