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Waiting for Sex?

amberrae45amberrae45
in February 2013 Moms
Thursday is my 6 week PP check up and I'm pretty sure she'll clear me to have sex but I'm dreading it. I have zero sex drive and I know after nearly 2 months DH is dying to DTD. Is anyone else not excited to start having sex again?
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    wifeofadamwifeofadam member

    It's not as bad as you think it will be.

    My MWs give me the clear to do it whenever I feel up for it, which was yesterday for DH and I.  My bleeding has stopped and I didn't have any tearing, so it wasn't painful at all - just a little uncom

        
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    holly321holly321 member
    In my case, which I think is the norm, itis rather uncomfortable for the first few minutes, the first few times, but pp sex is the best!
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    meechellebellemeechellebelle member
    We only had sex twice the entire pregnancy because it was so painful for me because I was always swollen down there. I'm only nervous because its going to hurt a bit from not having sex for so long. However my SO deserves it for being so patient and my 6
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    bumpuser7698452bumpuser7698452 member
    I feel for you. I've been giving in because I feel bad. We used to have sex pretty much every day before DD and now I feel bad because he waited so long.
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    eatdrinkstretcheatdrinkstretch member
    It was SO much better than I expected! Didn't hurt, but I was a little sore afterward. It wasn't the greatest sex of my life, but whatever. Make sure you use lots of lube.
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    kleigh926kleigh926 member
    We didn't have any problems. It was pretty good, actually. We used lube and took it slow. Afterwards I was a little sore, but not bad at all.
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    kat1221kat1221 member
    I feel you. I have had zero sex drive and it's annoying! I guess it's the hormones? I have my 6 week pp check today. We DTD once at around 4.5 weeks and didn't finish b/c it hurt and we didn't have lube.

    I am hoping that my sex drive will co
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    RachelM05RachelM05 member
    I just had my PP appt today and got the ok. I'm definitely nervous, but DH has been so amazing and helpful and I know he's been counting down the days! I've heard wine and lots of lube, so I've made sure we have both. I AM looking forward to non-pregnant
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    macara0301macara0301 member

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    We didn't have any problems. It was pretty good, actually. We used lube and took it slow. Afterwards I was a little
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