So we taught dd1 to say dd2's name (otherwise we were keeping it a "secret") and whenever family would ask us dd2's name we'd say "if you can get it out of Gwen you can know!"
It was actually kind of fun, and dd1 would say the name but not everybody could pick up on it. dd2's name is Elsa Beverly.
Well last night my Mom and sister figured out what dd1 was saying. My sister likes it but of course my Mom went on and on about the name (her way of avoiding saying she doesn't like it). Saying things like "oh isn't it too popular?" "oh well what about Elsie instead?" and on and on.
Then MIL and SIL found out today and apparently MIL is upset because we aren't using her Mother's name, and even more upset that the middle name is FIL Mother's name (they are divorced).
And people ask why we keep names a secret, perfect example. Ugh. So annoying. And now of course I'm doubting our name choice and wondering if it sucks.