Some days the enormity of our losses just hits me like a freight train and it's in those moments that I realize that so few people realize how we don't just get over our losses in a few weeks or months or perhaps even years. My friends don't ask me how I'm doing and avoid all talk about the miscarriages. This time around they don't even ask me what our next plan is. Do people ask you how you're doing or are you the one who has to bring it up if you want to talk about it?
Kelly, Mom to Christopher Shannon 9.27.06, Catherine Quinn 2.24.09, Trey Barton lost on 12.28.09, Therese Barton lost on 6.10.10, Joseph Sullivan 7.23.11, and our latest, Victoria Maren 11.15.12
Secondary infertility success with IVF, then two losses, one at 14 weeks and one at 10 weeks, then success with IUI and then success with condoms! Who would ever have guessed.
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