So far, most people have responded fine when I tell them we're not finding out what the babies are until they're born.
Except 2. Who actually berated me, telling me I wouldn't be able to plan without knowing what they were. One was actually the father of twins.
Really? I mean, get real people! It's not like I'm not buying cribs or any baby supplies - we're just getting neutral big ticket items (which we would do regardless in case we have more children).
So basically the only thing I'm not doing is buying gender specific clothing. And THIS makes me a bad planner? Really?
BTW - this came from the same guy (who has b/g twins) who asked me if fraternal twins can even be the same sex