WTO Sunday

kiki75

I keep thinking I must be missing something since I don't see a WTO Sunday yet!

Month/Cycle:

CD:

WAYDTGKU:

R/R/CS:

GTKY: If you could leave tomorrow for a week vacation (sponsored by someone else), where would you go? ETA: And no other concerns (like Zika).

SnobunnieMel

It's weird for a west coaster to be the first post!! Hope it means everyone is getting to sleep in today 

Month/Cycle: 6/2 TTCAL 

CD: 14

WAYDTGKU:BBT, PNV, ovaboost, myo inositol, fertilaid, fertilecm, acupuncture, black cohosh cd5-15, CP, CM, HIO ED, OPK, preseed

R/R/CS: ****tw****** really thought I was going to get a +OPK today. The cycle I got my BFP for my MMC it was cd14 like clock work. Last month it was cd15 & 16 but that was following a CP and my hormones were super wacky. Hope it doesn't take much longer cause we can only ED FWP for so long. Let the POAS crazies continue  ********tw over****** 

GTKY: If you could leave tomorrow for a week vacation (sponsored by someone else), where would you go?

i usually say Norway or Iceland to see the northern lights, but right now I would really love to go to Santorini. Beautiful ocean and sunsets and history 

britters314

Month/Cycle: 9/10

CD: 16

WAYDTGKU: CM, sex

R/R/CS: I have had so much more fertile CM than usual this month. It just won't stop! And it's great, but I just want to O already!

GTKY: If you could leave tomorrow for a week vacation (sponsored by someone else), where would you go?
Well H wouldn't be able to come with because he starts his new job on Wednesday. So I'm going to say Vancouver because the only city I've been to in Canada is Calgary and, from the pictures, Vancouver looks like it has more to do. Plus the mountains are beautiful.

ETA: 

Megzb510

Month/Cycle: 10/7

CD: 25

WAYDTGKU: pnv + supplements, bbt, acupuncture, cm 

R/R/CS: my temps keep dropping and spiking.I don't have fertile CM and I don't normally O this soon so I haven't been testing OPKs.  I was going to start around CD 30 (last 2 cycles I O'd on 36&38) but if all of a sudden the acupuncture effects have kicked in and made O sooner, I just don't know how I'm supposed to predict that short of testing OPKs for 20 days in a row. Even with how cheap wondfos are, it still adds up. Long cycles suck so much and I'm just waiting for my RE appt in June at this point. 

GTKY: my husband and I really want to take DS on a Disney cruise. We love cruising a lot and think DS would enjoy the Disney part. 

Scarlett830

I'm working this weekend and have already seen 4 patients, so I'll play! 

Month/Cycle: 1/1

CD: 13

WAYDTGKU: The usual

R/R/CS: I ordered OPKs on Amazon and have been using them for the past few days.  I thought I had ordered Wondfos, but ended up with a box of easy@home. They look the same once they're out of the packaging, but it still makes me wary.  Anyone know if they're the same thing or had any experience with them in the past?  

GTKY: This question is very difficult for me because I am a wanderer and love traveling. I would go everywhere and anywhere. At first I thought I would say Africa, but one week would never be long enough for all I want to do there! Maybe Paris, or (and it probably sounds silly) Tokyo, because I would love to see Japan, but also am a huge Disney nut and am dying to go to Tokyo Disney and Tokyo Disneysea!

hanshotfirst77

Month/Cycle: 7/8

CD: 9

WAYDTGKU: still debating this cycle. Maybe will start opk tomorrow and fw is approaching so some sex. Taking the month off of bbt, cm, cp etc. 

R/R/CS: not much going on. Taking off most things this cycle means I'm in a lot less control but it is taking my mind off things. also means I have a lot less to say as far as ttc is concerned. 

GTKY: If you could leave tomorrow for a week vacation (sponsored by someone else), where would you go? ETA: And no other concerns (like Zika)

I'd go on Caribbean vacation at one of those all inclusive places. 

mrsdee15

I was surprised it hadn't been started too!

Month/Cycle: 10/9

CD: 2

WAYDTGKU:  Temping started up again, OPKs/CM/CP eventually.  Also waiting for AF to leave. 

R/R/CS:  I'm so glad to be back on the temping wagon.  

GTKY: If you could leave tomorrow for a week vacation (sponsored by someone else), where would you go? ETA: And no other concerns (like Zika).  I was looking at the glasses we got at the Oban Distillery last night, so right now I'll say I'd go back to Scotland and spend more time in the cities and take DH to the Highlands and Loch Ness.  We didn't make it up there when we were there. 

MamaMunn

Month/Cycle: 12/10

CD: 4

WAYDTGKU: pnv, bbt, opk, levothyroxine, starting clomid tuesday

R/R/CS: Got some of my lab results back already after my cd 3 blood draw yesterday. So far everything looks good. I'm still waiting for the tsh results to see if the levothyroxine is helping or if we need to up the dose. 

GTKY: If you could leave tomorrow for a week vacation (sponsored by someone else), where would you go? ETA: And no other concerns (like Zika). Hawaii. I've never been there and have always wanted to go. I just need a nice relaxing beach vacation right now to relieve all my stress. 

hezzer78

Month/Cycle: 3/3

CD: 18

WAYDTGKU: charting, temping, sexing

R/R/CS: Not sure if I should be here or in TWW - I think I'll move over there tomorrow. FF put my O date as 2 days ago - but I think it's skewed because I had some high temps the past two mornings due to alcohol (I think). I am having some CM today though, so we'll see what happens tomorrow morning. I'm not drinking tonight.

GTKY: If you could leave tomorrow for a week vacation (sponsored by someone else), where would you go? ETA: And no other concerns (like Zika).

India. I've been dying to go for a long time. Or possibly Tokyo - the only way I could afford to go to Japan is if someone else paid for it

KirstinH88

Month/Cycle: 7 total, 3 after MC

CD: 6

WAYDTGKU: Temping. CM. HIO At least EOD

R/R/CS: My temp went WAY up yesterday morning (due to drinking and sleeping in). Not sure if I should leave that temp in there, but I am. It went back down today. Probably still have another 10 days til O. 

GTKY:  If you could leave tomorrow for a week vacation (sponsored by someone else), where would you go? ETA: And no other concerns (like Zika).

My dream vacation is to go on a cruise in the Mediterranean. I get to cruise and see different cities/countries. I'd love to depart/arrive in Barcelona. I lived there for 6 months after graduating college and still have many friends there. So I would go early or stay after the cruise and spend more time there. I'd also love to see Italy Greece, Morocco, Egypt, etc.

wineo929

Hey ladies!

Month/cycle: 7/8

CD: 13

R/R/CS: EWCM and a positive OPK yesterday. Lots of sexy time happening!! Hoping for a temp spike tomorrow or the next day.

GTKY: Ireland! My husband is Irish and it's his dream to go.

krys-2

Month/Cycle: 2/2

CD: 7

WAYDTGKU: Temping/CM/CP/OPK/doin it

R/R/CS: So glad to be home! It's almost noon and I'm still loafing in bed with hubby and the dogs. Life is good!

Trying to decide on what sounds good for lunch and where we want to go for our late anniversary dinner. Hubby got my some stunning flowers which I absolutely loved (and he made sure to say he noted my comment that I don't like flowers you can get from the grocery store because I like unique ones LOL)



GTKY: If you could leave tomorrow for a week vacation (sponsored by someone else), where would you go? ETA: And no other concerns (like Zika). Hmmmmm...this is a tough one. I've really really wanted to go to Bali, so I'm going to have to go with that. I keep saying that I'm going to piggyback a trip there after one of my Philippines trips because I'm almost there flight wise, but I haven't made it happen yet. 

ETA: pics

Scarlett830

Yay for the + OPK @wineo929!

juliebeannn

Month/Cycle: 5/5 (2 cycles benched)

CD: 12

WAYDTGKU: prenatal. cm. opk. HIO tonight!

R/R/CS: I got a + opk yesterday and this morning, so hope to officially come off the bench tonight.  I hope my back holds up!  

GTKY: If you could leave tomorrow for a week vacation (sponsored by someone else), where would you go? ETA: And no other concerns (like Zika).  
Since we had to cancel our Hawaii trip the beginning of this month because my back, this is a no-brainer -- MAUI!!

Sugargirl1019

@Scarlett830 I used them, and did not notice any problem with them.

pretzel2plus1

@krys Love the flowers, and your kitchen is beautiful!!

Month/Cycle: 11/9 (month rollover day sucks)

CD: 21

WAYDTGKU: OPKs, all my usual except temping

R/R/CS: H and I bought some Adirondack chairs for the back patio. I'm so excited to start fixing up that space. 

GTKY: Well, I just got back from a vacation in the mountains, so I would probably want to head to the beach somewhere. Maybe Hawaii with a few of you, or Paris. H wants to go to New Zealand to see where they filmed the LOTR movies. 

virginiaham

Month/Cycle:  10/7 (1AL)

CD:  60

WAYDTGKU:  all of it

R/R/CS:  I got an OB/GYN consult and was ready to start PG tonight annnnd all of the EWCM and dark OPKs showed up.  FX this is O and I'll hold off on Progesterone to see if my temps shift.

GTKY:  Hawaii!  I want to go back and beach bum!!

Mythril

Month/Cycle: 4

CD: 29

WAYDTGKU: Clomid. Temping. Opks. Etc.

R/R/CS: I'm glad that I didn't go over to TWW. My temp dropped severely this morning. FF still has cross hairs so it could still be ovulation but I'm just not confident in it. I've had copious amounts of creamy CM though, for the last 3 or 4 days. Like, so much so that I probably should be wearing a panty liner. And that's strange.

Here's my chart if anyone wants to cs. <a href="https://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/60e8fc/">My Ovulation Chart</a>

GTKY: On a cruise. Husband and I would love to go on a cruise. To anywhere really. If I had to pick a place, I do want to visit Japan. I also want to visit Spain with my mom. She lived there as a child. Military brat. And I took 4 years of Spanish so she wanted to take me there as a reward. But it's expensive!

Marley629

Month/Cycle: 9/9

CD: 2 

  WADTGKU:  pnv's, vitamin d, baby aspirin for now. 

R/R/CS:  it is so so HOT here!! Just got back from a parade. I do love a good parade and now we are heading to a bbq where I will be enjoying a few glasses of Blueberry Moscato! 

GTKY: If you could leave tomorrow for a week vacation (sponsored by someone else), where would you go? ETA: And no other concerns (like Zika).

i have been dying to go to Bora Bora and stay in one of those huts in the water. A girl can dream! 

GrabberBlue2010

Month/Cycle: 26 / 23

CD: 3

WAYDTGKU: temp, monitored US, cm, might try cp just not sure about it yet, trigger shot, TI. 

R/R/CS: been a pretty darn good and relaxing weekend. 

GTKY: If you could leave tomorrow for a week vacation (sponsored by someone else), where would you go? ETA: And no other concerns (like Zika).
H and I love to cruise. That's #1 for us. 
But its my ultimate dream to visit bora bora. 

Scarlett830

Sugargirl1019 said:

@Scarlett830 I used them, and did not notice any problem with them.

Thanks! I don't think I've ever turned an OPK anyway in terms of matching darkness, but I didn't want a different brand giving me any issues.

And @Krys have a great anniversary dinner! Your flowers are beautiful. You're like me -- I hate generic "anyone can get them" flowers!

aammyy33

@JediAlly85 I hope the less control approach works for you this month! I started OPK's yesterday. Seeing negatives on those are not as bad as HPT's, but still no fun.

@MamaMunn Glad the results you got back are good, Fx the thyroid meds are doing their job!

@Krys That bouquet is gorgeous!

@virginiaham Fx you O this late! That would be amazing.

@Mythril Have you mentioned any of this to your doctor? Do you have a plan for if you don't O?I know most people here are big advocates of being monitored closely for O by your Doctor when on Clomid. Sorry if you've already explained previously.

Month/cycle: 6/2

CD: 10 ( Day 7 from start of AF)

WAYDTGKU: PNV. Whole30 (day 28 of 30), HBC (finished), Letrozole (finished Thursday), then U/S (Monday), then TI, then progesterone then we will see.

R/R/CS:  6 months TTC and I have had exactly ZERO chances of getting pregnant. Hard to believe I lived for 10 years terrified of accidentally getting pregnant and pretty much knowing nothing about my body and reproduction in general. That seems so long ago now. Ugh.

GTKY: I'd really like to go on a road trip to the east coast of Canada with DH. I went with a friend right out of high school and it was amazing. We basically lived in the back of our mini van, had hardly any money and no real plans. Now (especially if it's being paid for by someone else) I think we'd maybe do the bed and breakfast route and eat at some nicer places, but I still like the idea of not having an agenda.

whiska

Month/Cycle: 14/14

CD: 14

WAYDTGKU: bbt, opks, pnvs, p-in-v

R/R/CS: My opks seem to be getting darker and I'm definitely getting right-sided o pains so it sounds like it's time to get down to business.

GTKY: If you could leave tomorrow for a week vacation (sponsored by someone else), where would you go? ETA: And no other concerns (like Zika).

I love this question because I could daydream about free vacations all day long!  This is going to sounds corny af, but I really loved Edward and Bella's honeymoon.  Basically I want a bangin island beach mansion that's secluded but with staff to make me quesadillas, where you can walk out to crystal clear waters to swim/snorkel, with good hiking trails nearby.  And fu Zika.

whiska

@britters314 That's wonderful. So many people have said they had more ewcm than normal the cycle they got their bfp (not that I want to feed the bsc!).  FX for o soon!!

mrsdee15

OMG @virginiaham my fingers are crossed for O for you!  

MonaLisaRalphio

Month/Cycle: 7/6

CD: 18

WAYDTGKU: Obsessively checking my CM, BBT, PNV, OPK, EODish

R/R/CS: Blazing positive OPKs today and yesterday, so I should O tonight or tomorrow!  Timing has been good, so I'm a happy camper.  The last couple of weeks, I've had such a bad feeling about this cycle... but now that I'm about to O (and now that my EWCM finally showed up!), the ol' eternal optimist in me has shown up.  I realized today that if I get KU this cycle, I'll only be about 8 weeks when we go to the lake house to spend a week with family in July.  That's not really soon enough to tell people, but it's also wayyyyyy too late to do any drinking, which is usually a pretty serious theme when it comes to family time.  So it'll be interesting to see how that all shakes out.

GTKY: If you could leave tomorrow for a week vacation (sponsored by someone else), where would you go? ETA: And no other concerns (like Zika).  I would go back to Italy, where we went for our honeymoon a couple of months ago.  Florence has seriously ruined me for any other place ever again.

NamelessAria

Month/Cycle: 10/10

CD: 14 

WAYDTGKU: All my usual stuff

R/R/CS: Sorry this is going to be a long vent. I just needed to get this off my chest.

DH and I were going to have sex yesterday but it didn't work out because of some performance anxiety issues. DH starts saying how he isn't even sure why we're trying to have children. He said he feels like he's mostly going along with it to make me and his mother happy but that, obviously, its something he should be doing for himself. This came as a complete shock to me. I really had no idea he had been feeling that way. We had a long talk about it and we may be taking a TTC break. He was just very confusing about the whole thing saying that of course he wants to keep TTC but he isn't sure why he's doing it? But of course he wants a baby. He said he is terrified something will happen to me if I get pregnant. And he said that he feels like TTC is making me really depressed. He's not wrong. This whole thing has been a huge emotional drain and I have honestly been feeling like I've gone beyond normal grieving and I'm a little depressed. We ended the talk with me saying that perhaps we should put TTC on hold for now and him insisting that he doesn't want to do that. Then changing the subject and walking out the room.

I'm planning to keep my RE appointment for July either way because I want to know if something is wrong and get a treatment plan even if it ends up being something I can't really use right away. I'm sure that even if we take a break we'll go back to TTC at some point.

I'm probably Oing today since all my fertility signs are finally, more or less, lining up for today as O. But I doubt we'll have sex.  We talked about it earlier today and he gave me some excuses as to why he couldn't possibly have sex today. I told him that if he didn't want to that of course its fine. I certainly don't want to push him into something. So it looks like our timing for this cycle will be -2 which, all things considered, is probably a good compromise. If its "meant to be" (for whoever believes in that sort of thing. I'm not sure I do.) it'll work out but that doesn't give us great chances.

ETA: I'm really not ready to move over to TTA/benched for now. And I'm still holding out hope that DH was just frustrated over his performance issues yesterday and said some things he didn't mean. This will be something we need to talk about some more, preferably when it's a less emotionally charged time, before we come to any final decisions. So hopefully it's OK with everyone if I just stay with WTO/TWW for now.



GTKY: If you could leave tomorrow for a week vacation (sponsored by someone else), where would you go? ETA: And no other concerns (like Zika). I don't even know.

NamelessAria

Also, @virginiaham  FX'd for O soon!

belocin

*Question in month/cycle*

Month/Cycle: 1/1 (how is this determined? Do I roll over the month based on the calendar? With May approaching its end, I wanted to make sure I'm tracking it correctly.)

CD: 9

WAYDTGKU: temping, starting OPKs soon

R/R/CS: Temp spike this morning thanks to the two beers I downed last night. Expecting another one tomorrow morning thanks to the margarita currently in my hand!

GTKY: If you could leave tomorrow for a week vacation (sponsored by someone else), where would you go? ETA: And no other concerns (like Zika).

Cruise, for sure! It's H and I's favorite way to travel. I love that everything is paid for ahead of time and I get the best sleep on a cruise ship. 

Mythril

@aammyy33 I'm going in for my annual and I will talk to him about it. I have thus far not o-ed on any dose, and the previous three cycles we did Provera and started again. I can't afford an re, they aren't covered on my insurance. Neither are the blood tests or ultrasounds. So I will have to save up before we move on.

clover28

@NamelessAria Huge hugs to you. 

hanshotfirst77

@NamelessAria sending you hugs! Fx your DH was just frustrated. 

kiki75

Month/Cycle: 3/4

CD: 16

WAYDTGKU: PNVs, vitamin D, BD every possible day, things like that

R/R/CS: Someone picked up part of H's scheduled work so he'll be home in time for dinner tonight instead of 3:00 a.m.! Which is extra awesome because it will give us a chance for O and +1! 

GTKY: If you could leave tomorrow for a week vacation (sponsored by someone else), where would you go? ETA: And no other concerns (like Zika). 
Brazil. Specifically, Lencois and Salvador. In Lencois, there's a lot of hiking around and swimming in natural swimming holes and waterfalls and caves and all sorts of stuff like that with really good food and fun at night. I've wanted to go for a long time but you have to get visas to go to Brazil and if we were going to do that, my H would actually have to get a second passport because he can't be without his for the absolute minimum week it takes to get a visa. 

Scarlett830

@NamelessAria all the creepy internet hugs for you!

Mythril

@NamelessAria ghost hugs and sympathies. 

whiska

@belocin Count month by the CD1 of the first cycle you started trying... so if it was May 20 your month will roll over on June 20.  

@NamelessAria I am so so sorry - my heart's breaking for you because that is a huge curveball.  I hope you guys can find a path that works for you both.  TTC has been difficult for me but I have been lucky in that I [am pretty sure I] ovulate every month, there are no other diagnoses or difficult illnesses or conditions to deal with, and I haven't suffered a loss.  I feel somewhat justified feeling as sad as I do since it's taking so long, but I feel like you have had to deal with so much more.  If the sadness has sunk into depression it might be good to seek out someone to talk with.  Bumpers can commiserate but unfortunately can't recommend personalized strategies for dealing with that heavy, leaded feeling of sadness.  There is a good chance I will look for a therapist if we're not ku by the end of the year, because I was definitely in a bad place this winter and I don't want to go back.  Sending hugs.  

pretzel2plus1

@NamelessAria Sending so many hugs and kind thoughts your way. Please do whatever you need to take care of yourself right now.

virginiaham

@NamelessAria I'm sorry!  I hope you and your H are able to talk honestly about it.  Leaving the conversation there and open-ended is not fun but I hope he'll be able to come back to it having processed his thoughts and feelings more separated from the pressure of the moment.  *hugs*

hanna133

Month/Cycle: 2/2 (+2 not charting)

CD: 3

WAYDTGKU: temping

R/R/CS: nothing much going on yet. 

GTKY: If you could leave tomorrow for a week vacation (sponsored by someone else), where would you go? ETA: And no other concerns (like Zika).
I've always thought the European cruises looked amazing. 

britters314

@Mythril  It looks like your thermometer might be favoring temps because you have quite a few lately at exactly 98.6. That could be affecting things and could by why your temp dropped.

@whiska  Ohh I know and that's making me super hopeful. Combine that with the fact that since cycle 6, I've had a feeling that cycle 10 would be the one and I'm going to be so crazy during this TWW

@NamelessAria  I'm sorry! Hopefully your H is able to work out what he is feeling and the two of you can figure this all out. And of course you can keep posting in WTO and TWW. And even if you end up with only -2 timing, you won't be out!

leekat14

Month/Cycle: 6/5

CD: 12

WAYDTGKU: lots except temping 

R/R/CS: FW here!!!! Haven't done a lot but the week looks promising. 

GTKY: If you could leave tomorrow for a week vacation (sponsored by someone else), where would you go? 
Ireland, Australia, Germany ohhhh there are so many spots!