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TWW post (11/20)

OH MY GOSH!!  I'm so sorry I totally forgot to post the check-in!!  Thanks @jilligan14 for reminding me!!  GEEZ!!

For those in your TWW, tell us about your symptoms, plans to test (or not), and any other drama that may be happening!!  GOOD LUCK EVERYONE!!!!
*** Child & current pregnancy mentioned ***
Me - 41 (PCOS), Hubby - 43 (healthy)
7/2013 - Sweet baby girl born (Clomid + TI)
3/2014 - TTC #2, return to RE 7/2014
12/2015: IVF #1 transferred two great looking embryos - BFP!
First ultrasound: TWO beautiful little heartbeats!!
Harmony: negative; level 2: babies look great and are boy/girl! :) 
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    So I'm on cycle day 27 and 8 DPO. I plan on testing on Sunday. Symptoms are that I'm super emotional right now. I've been reading Facebook feeds at my desk at work and practically crying at my desk. No joke, there was this story about a couple that adopted a boy who was born without a right hand. Turns out the adoptive grandfather also was born without a hand. The grandfather said something along the lines of " once I saw him I knew he was mine" and I literally started sobbing at my desk. My coworkers probably think I'm crazy ha ha. Anywho... Here's to hormones and hoping they mean something more than regular old PMS
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    I'm at CD 26 and 13dpo right now. just cramps for the last two days that tell me AF is probably on the way. I tested with an IC yesterday and it was neg. Might use an frer tomorrow if AF doesn't show up. My cycles have been 26 days lately.
    Married: 7/9/15
    Me: 37, DH: 36
    Started TTC #1: 9/2015
    Preliminary labs/testing @ 6 months: TSH, A1c, progesterone, prolactin, SA, HSG all normal
    BFP: 5/19/2016, M/C: 5/29/2016
    BFP: 6/22/2016  EDD 3//6/2017

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    Today is CD 24 and 12dpIUI. Neg on a store brand test I did this morning. Was going to not test and just wait out AF (expected next Wednesday), but I kept dreaming of testing last night so I figured this might help get it out of my head. At UIU the clinic said I could come in for a test on the 24th, but I said I wouldn't be because it would be a pain to get there without missing work and I wanted to save the $80 they charge. Heading to a vineyard today and trying to decide if I will taste/drink at all.  Post IUI instructions said not to... 

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    @jilligan14 no, I haven't tested yet. Mainly because I didn't want disappointment for breakfast ;). Still no AF....now 14dpo. I'll test once the morning coffee kicks in....maybe.
    Married: 7/9/15
    Me: 37, DH: 36
    Started TTC #1: 9/2015
    Preliminary labs/testing @ 6 months: TSH, A1c, progesterone, prolactin, SA, HSG all normal
    BFP: 5/19/2016, M/C: 5/29/2016
    BFP: 6/22/2016  EDD 3//6/2017

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    BernieRaeBernieRae member
    edited November 2015

    @jilligan14 - I love your optimism and excitement so early in the morning :) Thank you for that. I hope Dec 3rd is a lucky day for you! And thanks for the "request a test" idea. Good to know. Still, I just don't see the point in paying at all for a blood test unless it's to confirm a positive HPT. The clinic said if I was doing a back to back cycle they would need to confirm a negative test before moving on, but I plan to space out my treated cycles anyway.  

    @PattersRN - Hoping AF stays away and you get some good news when you decide to test!

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    Woot! Happy to see @jilligan14 and @dolphin012 in here! I've got everything crossed for all of you!
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    Cd 18 here. The past couple months AF has arrived on day 25 so I will probably start testing middle of next week. I bought 2 boxes of 3 early HPT and I have a ton of Wondflo.
    No symptoms yet other than having to pee like crazy last night. And emotionally I've been a wreck the past couple days.
    I'm crying now while watching LOTR with my son and hubby because I watched this with my brother when he was little.

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    @dolphin012 I'm cheering your little embryos on and thinking happy implanting thoughts! Go embies go embies go embies go!!! I really hope this time is it for you!

    @Jenniferk08 how many dpo are you? Fingers crossed for you!!!
    ME: 36 (PCOS), DH: excellent SA
    NTNP since 11/12, actively trying since 8/14
    m/c @ 7w (4/22/14), m/c @ 6w (11/19/14)
    11/15: Letrozole, Ovidrel, TI = BFP!!!
    Beta #1(14dpo)=349, Beta #2(18dpo)=2,805
    12/17/15: Got to see the heartbeat (105bpm)!
    1/25/16: NT scan = normal (HB=163bpm)
    EDD: 8/10/16 
    8/8/16: Baby boy born @ 12:25am, 8lbs, 20.5 inches
    5/18/17: BFP!!! (11dpo)
    Beta #1(12dpo)=176.4, Beta #2(15dpo)=607.1
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    @jilligan14 only 4 DPO. Thank you.

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    Temps are still low, 5 days past trigger shot. Does that mean I didn't O???? I'm going to be so bummed if I went through all of this and didn't even O! Feeling worried....
    ME: 36 (PCOS), DH: excellent SA
    NTNP since 11/12, actively trying since 8/14
    m/c @ 7w (4/22/14), m/c @ 6w (11/19/14)
    11/15: Letrozole, Ovidrel, TI = BFP!!!
    Beta #1(14dpo)=349, Beta #2(18dpo)=2,805
    12/17/15: Got to see the heartbeat (105bpm)!
    1/25/16: NT scan = normal (HB=163bpm)
    EDD: 8/10/16 
    8/8/16: Baby boy born @ 12:25am, 8lbs, 20.5 inches
    5/18/17: BFP!!! (11dpo)
    Beta #1(12dpo)=176.4, Beta #2(15dpo)=607.1
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    I'm at cd22 and 5dpo according to Fertility Friend. 

    What's bothering me is that my gynecologist couldn't see the dominant follicle on cd16. He said it was possible I ovulated earlier this month (I usually ovulate on cd 17/18), but I'm not so sure... Anyway, I will wait for the beginning of December when AF is due and test then if it doesn't come.

    Best of luck to everyone  in TWW!



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    @jilligan14, temps for me have always been really erratic when I've taken Femara.  I'm hoping that's the case for you and you did ovulate!

    I'm at CD28 and either 11 or 13dpo.  No AF.  FF has changed my O date several times because my temps are all over the place.  They've been up one day and just barely under cover the next.  Sore boobs, cramps, emotional - the whole shabang.  I've had BFN's every day, although did not test today.  I think I just don't want to be disappointed again and feel like testing again doesn't make sense. AF is coming.

    Ladies, it sounds like we've got some possibly BFP's on the horizon!!!   HERE'S FOR HOPING!
    **child mentioned**
    Me(38)PCOS/Hypothyroid   DH(43)Low T/ED
    MMC at 10 weeks 03/2011 DD born 01/2012   TTC #2 since 04/2014
    BFP 8/26/2016


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    @infantino22 hey... a positive is a positive. FX it is for real! A negative 4 days ago is nothing, you got a positive today :);):), That would be crazy amazing to have so many BFP's all at once. Keep us posted! 
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    @Infantino22 --that'a exciting! 4 days can make a big difference with the test's reliability, can't it? Hoping you can confirm your positive soon!
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    @CarrieandRoy congrats! I totally understand the cautious approach, hang in there and FX this is the one! You deserve a sticky bean. Keep us updated. :blush:
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    @CarrieandRoy - OMG!! How awesome!! I understand being cautious. I've had 2 losses as well and know I'm going to be a total nervous wreck if/when I get my BFP. My fingers are crossed for you that everything goes smoothly!
    ME: 36 (PCOS), DH: excellent SA
    NTNP since 11/12, actively trying since 8/14
    m/c @ 7w (4/22/14), m/c @ 6w (11/19/14)
    11/15: Letrozole, Ovidrel, TI = BFP!!!
    Beta #1(14dpo)=349, Beta #2(18dpo)=2,805
    12/17/15: Got to see the heartbeat (105bpm)!
    1/25/16: NT scan = normal (HB=163bpm)
    EDD: 8/10/16 
    8/8/16: Baby boy born @ 12:25am, 8lbs, 20.5 inches
    5/18/17: BFP!!! (11dpo)
    Beta #1(12dpo)=176.4, Beta #2(15dpo)=607.1
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    Congratulations @CarrieandRoy!!  SO happy for you!
    *** Child & current pregnancy mentioned ***
    Me - 41 (PCOS), Hubby - 43 (healthy)
    7/2013 - Sweet baby girl born (Clomid + TI)
    3/2014 - TTC #2, return to RE 7/2014
    12/2015: IVF #1 transferred two great looking embryos - BFP!
    First ultrasound: TWO beautiful little heartbeats!!
    Harmony: negative; level 2: babies look great and are boy/girl! :) 
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    Congratulations, @CarrieandRoy! Hoping this one sticks for you!  Keeping my fx for you!
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    Ah, big congrats @CarrieandRoy! That is such wonderful news! Here's hoping this is your sticky rainbow baby! Keep us updated! (And, do I remember correctly that this was your "we only managed to BD on -2 days from O day" cycle? If so, it's encouraging that, when it's time, it really does only take once!)
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    Congrats @CarrieandRoy ! I love hearing about BFPs! So happy for you :)
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    Yes @Sporty1216 ! This was the -2 month! We conceived with my mother-in-law in the house! I never expected that!
    TTC#1 since Jan 2015
    BFP 2/19/15  •  MMC found at 9 wks  •  D&E at 11 wks (age 36)
    BFP 8/29/15
      •  CP (age 37)
    BFP 11/18/15  •  DD born at 41 weeks <3(age 37/38)

    TTC#2 since May 2017
    BFP 10/18/17  •  MMC found at 8 wks  •  Misoprostal at 10.5 wks (age 39)

    BFP 2/16/18
      •  CP (age 39)
    BFP 4/13/18
      •  CP (age 39)
    BFP 5/07/18  •  MMC found at 10.5 wks  •  D&E at 11.5 wks 
    •  Testing showed it was a girl with Trisomy 22. (age 39/40)
    9/5/18 Diagnosed with diminished ovarian reserve (4-5 follicles, one ovary had none and was very atrophied)

    RE says the low egg count is likely causing my recurrent pregnancy loss. Less eggs results in more aneuploidy.

    BFP 9/24/18  • 
    CP (age 40)
    BFP 5/11/19  •  Fraternal twins  •  MMC found at 10w5d (Baby A 6w, Baby B 10w)  •  Misoprostal at 11 weeks (age 41)













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    Well that's gonna be a fun story to embarrass your little one with someday. ;)
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    @Sporty1216, the first time I got pregnant, my 7 yr old nephew asked my mom if DH and I were embarrassed when we had sex. :)
    TTC#1 since Jan 2015
    BFP 2/19/15  •  MMC found at 9 wks  •  D&E at 11 wks (age 36)
    BFP 8/29/15
      •  CP (age 37)
    BFP 11/18/15  •  DD born at 41 weeks <3(age 37/38)

    TTC#2 since May 2017
    BFP 10/18/17  •  MMC found at 8 wks  •  Misoprostal at 10.5 wks (age 39)

    BFP 2/16/18
      •  CP (age 39)
    BFP 4/13/18
      •  CP (age 39)
    BFP 5/07/18  •  MMC found at 10.5 wks  •  D&E at 11.5 wks 
    •  Testing showed it was a girl with Trisomy 22. (age 39/40)
    9/5/18 Diagnosed with diminished ovarian reserve (4-5 follicles, one ovary had none and was very atrophied)

    RE says the low egg count is likely causing my recurrent pregnancy loss. Less eggs results in more aneuploidy.

    BFP 9/24/18  • 
    CP (age 40)
    BFP 5/11/19  •  Fraternal twins  •  MMC found at 10w5d (Baby A 6w, Baby B 10w)  •  Misoprostal at 11 weeks (age 41)













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    @CarrieandRoy, I'm just now reading this!! OMG - Congratulations!
    Hoping and praying this is your sticky baby!
    **child mentioned**
    Me(38)PCOS/Hypothyroid   DH(43)Low T/ED
    MMC at 10 weeks 03/2011 DD born 01/2012   TTC #2 since 04/2014
    BFP 8/26/2016


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    My dr doesn't check hcg, so I just have to wait and wonder.  I hope your results are good!
    TTC#1 since Jan 2015
    BFP 2/19/15  •  MMC found at 9 wks  •  D&E at 11 wks (age 36)
    BFP 8/29/15
      •  CP (age 37)
    BFP 11/18/15  •  DD born at 41 weeks <3(age 37/38)

    TTC#2 since May 2017
    BFP 10/18/17  •  MMC found at 8 wks  •  Misoprostal at 10.5 wks (age 39)

    BFP 2/16/18
      •  CP (age 39)
    BFP 4/13/18
      •  CP (age 39)
    BFP 5/07/18  •  MMC found at 10.5 wks  •  D&E at 11.5 wks 
    •  Testing showed it was a girl with Trisomy 22. (age 39/40)
    9/5/18 Diagnosed with diminished ovarian reserve (4-5 follicles, one ovary had none and was very atrophied)

    RE says the low egg count is likely causing my recurrent pregnancy loss. Less eggs results in more aneuploidy.

    BFP 9/24/18  • 
    CP (age 40)
    BFP 5/11/19  •  Fraternal twins  •  MMC found at 10w5d (Baby A 6w, Baby B 10w)  •  Misoprostal at 11 weeks (age 41)













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    lickasticklickastick member
    edited November 2015
    @Infantino22 congrats! I've been waiting to hear you got your BFP;) really hoping you get a H&H 9 months! What a month ladies! Keep 'em coming!
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    I'm so happy for you @Infantino22 and @CarrieandRoy! Congratulations!
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    Thanks guys! Let's hope this one sticks -- and let's hope you all get your positives ASAP!! I'll keep lurking ;)
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    Congrats, @CarrieandRoy and @Infantino22! It gives this old lady hope to see all the BFPs rolling in. H&H 9 months!
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    Yes! Congrats to both of you! Super exciting! Let's hope this is the start of a trend!
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    @CarrieandRoy Yayyyy!! So exciting! Congratulations! Maybe DH doesn't owe you after all ;) fx that this sticks for you!
    Married: 7/9/15
    Me: 37, DH: 36
    Started TTC #1: 9/2015
    Preliminary labs/testing @ 6 months: TSH, A1c, progesterone, prolactin, SA, HSG all normal
    BFP: 5/19/2016, M/C: 5/29/2016
    BFP: 6/22/2016  EDD 3//6/2017

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    Whoa...more digging through this thread and more good news! Congrats to you too @Infantino22!!!
    Married: 7/9/15
    Me: 37, DH: 36
    Started TTC #1: 9/2015
    Preliminary labs/testing @ 6 months: TSH, A1c, progesterone, prolactin, SA, HSG all normal
    BFP: 5/19/2016, M/C: 5/29/2016
    BFP: 6/22/2016  EDD 3//6/2017

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    @CarrieandRoy -- made my day to log in and see this news. So happy for you! I am sending lots of thoughts to and your little one -- really hoping this is the one :)  

    Sounds like your MIL is good luck and you will have to invite your her over more often when you have sex ;)
    Me (42) w/ partner for 16+ years
    TTC #1: 11/2012 - 9/2013; 6/2014 - present
    Follistim + TI (3x): All BFNs
    Follistim + IUI (1x): BFN 
    IVF #1: 17 retrieved,15 fertilized, Day 3: 15, Day 5/6: 3 biopsied
    Result; 1 frozen blast (inconclusive PGS results)
    IVF #2; ER: 6/22 16 retrieved, 6/25: 5 transferred (CP), 2 frozen
    FET 9/17: BFN
    Current FET -- Transferred 2 day-3 embryos - BFN

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