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At the ER

Started bleeding again about 6 hours ago. Much worse than last Saturday with several large clots. One was about fist size (sorry TMI). Radiology tech let me "accidentally" see one baby and a little heartbeat. Waiting on the doctor now for the official report. So thankful one is still there! Please keep our LO in your prayers.

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    Thinking of you!
    Are you thinking it's a subchorionic hematoma? What color were the clots?
    I spent Friday night in the er with massive blood loss and our tech also accidentally let us see before a PA told us the radiologist saw a sch by the placentas. Apparently, the one my doctor found last week decided to act up with a vengeance!
    It's very scary but a lot better than the alternative!
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    We had two embryos transferred, so it appears one of them was lost. Baby present measured at 6w6d with a heartbeat of 100. Bleeding is slowing down, but still significant. Calling RE in the morning (since they never returned the emergency call I placed over 5 hrs ago). Hopefully the bleeding will continue to slow and this baby will hang in there. Thanks for your thoughts
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    I'm sorry for your loss but you still have a sticky baby left.
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    I am so sorry! I found out last weeks that only one of our babies had a heart beat and the other was just a sack and the yolk but has not continued to grow! I had such mixed feelings happy for the one and sadness over the other.

    I didn't bleed though and they said because of the progesterone I may not! I can't imagine how scary that must have been for you. So sorry you are going through this. I am wishing you a lot of strength to you and your sticky little baby!

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    Sending thoughts and prayers your way.  The bleeding is definitely scary - I've been there.  Please keep us posted.
    Me: 35 DH: 35 - Married 10 years
    PCOS and MF

    Two failed rounds IUI in 2010
    IVF #1 in 2011 - BFP 8/5/11 - Our IVF miracle was born 4/8/12
    FET 9/23/13; BFP -Twins-10/3/13; EDD 6/10/14; MC 11/1/13; D&C 11/4/13
    FET 3/28/14; BFN - 4/7/14
    IVF #2 - Transfer 2 embryos 11/14/14; BFP 11/24/14 - Beta 265;
    11/26/14 - Beta 612; 11/28/14 - Beta 1263; 12/1/14 - Beta 3571;
    12/3/14 - first u/s - two gestational sacs; 12/17/14 - two healthy heartbeats (132 and 134)
    Our IVF miracles were born 7/16/15

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    This is awful I'm so sorry. I am definitely praying for you tonight. Please let us know how you are doing and try to stay strong.
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    marniefmarnief member
    T&P heading your way. Hoping for a good update soon.
    Me: 37 | DH: 38 | Married 9/2012, low AMH, high FSH
    First-ever BFP after IUI #4 (Follistim) - Baby Girl born (36w2d) 8/8/2014!
    TTC #2 since Feb 2015
    BFP 5/4/15
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    Praying that little one holds tight!  Take care of yourself - sending T&P your way.
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    Thinking of you during this difficult time. Hope you are doing better today. Sending prayers 
    SIGGY WARNING//TICKER WARNING//PAIF

    Long of the Short:
     TTC since April 2013  DH 42 y/o I'm 30  Dh had vasectomy reversal Feb 2013 after 3 months developed scar tissue 
     First Re appt was September 2013 OOP for everything minus meds  
    DH's TESE surgery December 2013
    First cycle was February 2014 BFN none to freeze
     Second cycle was April 2014 BFP ending in Chemical Pregnancy none to freeze
     Third cycle June 2014 BFN none to freez
     Fourth cycle October 30th 28 retrieved, 13 mature and 12 fertilized
    PICSI, assisted hatching and fresh sperm from my DH's TESE surgery used
    5 FROZEN from a freeze all cycle! 
    FET completed on DECEMBER 9TH!!!
    Beta #1 13dp5dt BFP!! 800
    Beta #2 15dp5dt 2100
    Beta #3 17dp5dt 3600 
    First Scan January 5th! Everything looks great! Heart rate of 121!
    Second Scan January 20th. Baby Justone13 looks amazing. Heart rate of 175!
    Baby Girl is due August 27th
    Liv Annmarie born 8/25 7lbs 6oz 21 1/2 inches long 
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    Thanks everyone! Definitely lost one. The other seems to be doing fine. I have an US tmw to get more details. Btwn the ER, my RE and regular OB no one seemed to recommend bed rest. I did take mon off, but worked yesterday and today.
    I almost kicked a co-worker in the teeth bc she said she "knows how I feel" bc she had a "procedure" done on mon.
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    Oh my god, I am mentally kicking her in the teeth for you.
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    No heartbeat for the other baby. Thanks for your support ladies. Maybe I'll be back in a few months. I wish you all the best.
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    I am so sorry for your loss. Take care and hope to see you back soon. ((Hugs))
    Me: 35 DH: 35 - Married 10 years
    PCOS and MF

    Two failed rounds IUI in 2010
    IVF #1 in 2011 - BFP 8/5/11 - Our IVF miracle was born 4/8/12
    FET 9/23/13; BFP -Twins-10/3/13; EDD 6/10/14; MC 11/1/13; D&C 11/4/13
    FET 3/28/14; BFN - 4/7/14
    IVF #2 - Transfer 2 embryos 11/14/14; BFP 11/24/14 - Beta 265;
    11/26/14 - Beta 612; 11/28/14 - Beta 1263; 12/1/14 - Beta 3571;
    12/3/14 - first u/s - two gestational sacs; 12/17/14 - two healthy heartbeats (132 and 134)
    Our IVF miracles were born 7/16/15

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    So sorry for your loss.
    Good luck on your journey, our thoughts are with you.
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    marniefmarnief member
    Oh, I'm so so sorry. Wishing you comfort and gentleness now.
    Me: 37 | DH: 38 | Married 9/2012, low AMH, high FSH
    First-ever BFP after IUI #4 (Follistim) - Baby Girl born (36w2d) 8/8/2014!
    TTC #2 since Feb 2015
    BFP 5/4/15
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    I am so very sorry for your loss. Thinking of you and your OH.
    **Signature Warning**

    Dx PCOS August 2012
    Clomid x4 = BFN
    Femara+Follistim IUIs x 6 = 3 BFN, 2 C/P, 1 early miscarriage
    IVF June 2014- 43 R, 34 M, 24 F, 12 blasts frozen and severe OHSS
    FET September 12, 2014!
    Beta #1 12dp5dt- 724
    Beta #2 14dp5dt- 1631
    Beta #3 20dp5dt- 12,813
    Pending EDD at first OB appointment 11/6. Grow babies grow!

    "I might have to wait. I'll never give up. I guess it's half timing, and the other half's luck. 
    Wherever you are, whenever it's right, you'll come out of nowhere and into my life." ~ Michael Buble

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    I am so sorry to hear this. Be good to yourself and take this time to heal. Wishing you the best in the future. Big hugs!
    SIGGY WARNING//TICKER WARNING//PAIF

    Long of the Short:
     TTC since April 2013  DH 42 y/o I'm 30  Dh had vasectomy reversal Feb 2013 after 3 months developed scar tissue 
     First Re appt was September 2013 OOP for everything minus meds  
    DH's TESE surgery December 2013
    First cycle was February 2014 BFN none to freeze
     Second cycle was April 2014 BFP ending in Chemical Pregnancy none to freeze
     Third cycle June 2014 BFN none to freez
     Fourth cycle October 30th 28 retrieved, 13 mature and 12 fertilized
    PICSI, assisted hatching and fresh sperm from my DH's TESE surgery used
    5 FROZEN from a freeze all cycle! 
    FET completed on DECEMBER 9TH!!!
    Beta #1 13dp5dt BFP!! 800
    Beta #2 15dp5dt 2100
    Beta #3 17dp5dt 3600 
    First Scan January 5th! Everything looks great! Heart rate of 121!
    Second Scan January 20th. Baby Justone13 looks amazing. Heart rate of 175!
    Baby Girl is due August 27th
    Liv Annmarie born 8/25 7lbs 6oz 21 1/2 inches long 
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    I am so so sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you!

    ***SIGGY WARNING***

    Me (26) & DH (26)
    Dog Momma to 2 amazing furbabies
    Started dating: May 6, 2005 & Married: August 4, 2012
    Diagnosis: PCOS


    September 2013 - January 2014: Not trying but not preventing
    February 2014:
    Officially TTC (BBT, OPKs, etc)
    February-August 2014: Irregular Cycles, U/S showed Fibroids/Cysts, Provera required to get AF, BFNs
    September & October 2014: Testing Months with Reproductive Endocrinologist!
    DH's SA: Normal (116.4 million sperm, 97% motility, 36% morphology) - WHO criteria
    DH's Repeat SA: Poss. Low Morph. (138 million sperm, 73% motility, 8% morphology) - Kruger criteria
    HSG and SIS: Normal (tubes clear)

    Medicated Cycle:
     5mg Letrozole + Trigger Injection + TI = BFP!!

    ESTIMATED DUE DATE: AUGUST 13, 2015

    Beta #1: 12/8 - 1,040 Beta #2: 12/10 - 2,902 Beta #3: 12/16 - 19,321
    Ultrasound #1: 12/12 (5 weeks 1 day) - Gestational sac and yolk sac present
    Ultrasound #2: 12/18 (6 weeks 0 days) - Measuring good, heart rate 99
    Ultrasound #3: 12/26 (7 weeks 1 day) - Measuring good, heart rate 150




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    fjamil1fjamil1 member
    I am so sorry for your loss.
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    I'm very sorry, though I know there's nothing I can say that will really make it better. I've been there. It's awful and the only thing that makes it better is time. Take care of yourself and stick by your partner and support each other and let yourself do whatever makes you feel better. I think I'd have gone crazy if not for my husband, particularly last time when I was 11w2d and had told a number of people already and then had to tell them what happened and put up with well meaning but hurtful comments like your coworker's. Just remember that no matter how bad it feels, it does get better. 
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    I am so sorry.
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