2013 summary: Diagnosed with Hypothyroid; Cervical polyp removed (benign);
2 rounds ovidrel with timed intercourse (no result): 3 rounds IUI with clomid + ovidrel (no result)
2014 summary (to date):
IVF cycle 1 - ER: 4/17 (28 follicles, 3 fertilized, 2 survived to day 3);
ET: 4/20 (3rd day, 2 embryos - 1 @ 6 cells & 1 @ 4 cells); Beta 5/1 - BFP!;
1st scan 5/13 - development behind, no heartbeat detected; D&C 6/2; WTF 6/13
IVF cycle 2 - BCP begun 7/12; stims w/ HGH begun 7/26;
ER: 8/6, 12 follicles, 7 fertilized w/ ICSI; ET: 8/11, 3 blastocysts left, 2 transferred, 3rd arrested 8/12 - none to freeze
1st beta 8/19 - BFP! 294; 2nd beta 8/26 - 4976; 1st u/s 9/2; 2nd u/s 9/9 - two little heartbeats at 140 each!!!
EDD: 29-April-2015
Other Meds: Synthroid 100 mcg/daily
Re: *~*~* ftm & btdtm play date! 12/18 *~*~*
Paternity Leave How many dads took paternity leave? For how long? And was it enough, too much, just right?
Nursery/Gear Prep 1) What's your nursery must have? (besides crib and the obvious) What's one thing you have but never used so it's not worth the time? 2) Was there anything you wished you had purchased or stocked up on before the baby arrived?
Nursing Bras 1) When did you start purchasing nursing bras and from where? (From someone ins a higher range, about a 44D now.) 2) Should I buy nursing bras size up from what I am pre-delivery bc of getting my milk or a size down bc the babes will be out?
Dogs & Cats - Preparing for baby Any first hand advice on prepping our dogs & cats for when the baby arrive?
Returning to Work What was your plan on returning to work after having the baby? And did you actually stick with that plan?
Lifestyle Change 1) Any advice on easing the change of lifestyle for the SO? I mean we get these really big reminders on a daily basis but it feels like it may only occur once in a while to the other in your life. When is the time to start the things will definitely change talks? (especially with those who get all wiggy about change in the first place...) 2) my DH travels quite a bit for work - which I know will make it harder for me. We both also want to be sure we keep our relationships and also have time for our friends. He is already talking about doing a date night in the first couple weeks - umm - I don't think I am going to be ready to leave the baby in month 1!
And he is already talking about a long weekend with the guys come November - if he didn't travel as much as he did I would be ok with it but given his travel (work) and a baby under a year - is that really the smartest idea? I told him let's revisit that as it gets closer and he got all annoyed.
How have others gotten DH to understand things change - especially in the first months and even year?
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2013 summary: Diagnosed with Hypothyroid; Cervical polyp removed (benign);
2 rounds ovidrel with timed intercourse (no result): 3 rounds IUI with clomid + ovidrel (no result)
2014 summary (to date):
IVF cycle 1 - ER: 4/17 (28 follicles, 3 fertilized, 2 survived to day 3);
ET: 4/20 (3rd day, 2 embryos - 1 @ 6 cells & 1 @ 4 cells); Beta 5/1 - BFP!;
1st scan 5/13 - development behind, no heartbeat detected; D&C 6/2; WTF 6/13
IVF cycle 2 - BCP begun 7/12; stims w/ HGH begun 7/26;
ER: 8/6, 12 follicles, 7 fertilized w/ ICSI; ET: 8/11, 3 blastocysts left, 2 transferred, 3rd arrested 8/12 - none to freeze
1st beta 8/19 - BFP! 294; 2nd beta 8/26 - 4976; 1st u/s 9/2; 2nd u/s 9/9 - two little heartbeats at 140 each!!!
EDD: 29-April-2015
Other Meds: Synthroid 100 mcg/daily
FTM's List
Third Trimester
12/13/14 - @CandaceC1020
12/15/14 - @xc1148
12/30/14 - @Saintelizabeth
01/13/15 - @southernyankeegirl
01/14/15 - @MKateG
01/21/15 - @hopeby2015
01/24/15 - @Lady2010
Second Trimester
02/02/15 - @WA1215
02/07/15 - @jaztastic
02/11/15 - @MissEm15
02/17/15 - @weansworld09
02/19/15 - @Escarabeo217
02/22/15 - @BeckyP005
02/22/15 - @runawaylaurel
03/14/15 - @Margritli (twins)
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03/23/15 - @poohniki
04/17/15 - @pblge
04/25/15 - @BalletAn
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05/01/15 - @LO95
05/02/15 - @gsancho
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First Trimester
05/16/15 - @Aimothy
05/16/15 - @sunshinedaisies000
05/20/15 - @Lesliem0901
05/21/15 - @holberry5
05/25/15 - @1220winterbride
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05/29/15 - @kittenmittens9
05/30/15 - @MJ14323
05/31/15 - @IFinTN
05/31/15 - @sweetpotato123 (twins)
06/03/15 - @CarSaidYes
06/03/15 - @turquoisequeen
06/04/15 - @wendyful
06/06/15 - @Andy99
06/11/15 - @starlightgator (twins)
06/12/15 - @PurpleDaisy923 (twins)
06/15/15 - @jessimi06 (twins)
06/18/15 - @hbanana18
06/24/15 - @erbear84
07/02/15 - @katemonster1
07/03/15 - @amylev80
07/08/15 - @theblessingofababy
PAIF Angels:
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Graduates:
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@lincoln79 - Welcome, baby William Ryan, b. 10/29/14
@ekc0630 - Welcome, baby Jackson Thomas, b. 10/31/14
@rox825 - Welcome, baby Joseph Thomas, b. 11/13/14
@Ashris13 - Welcome, baby Elizabeth (Ellie) Victoria, b. 11/23/14
@heleng5 - Welcome, baby Annabelle Jade, b. 12/10/14
2013 summary: Diagnosed with Hypothyroid; Cervical polyp removed (benign);
2 rounds ovidrel with timed intercourse (no result): 3 rounds IUI with clomid + ovidrel (no result)
2014 summary (to date):
IVF cycle 1 - ER: 4/17 (28 follicles, 3 fertilized, 2 survived to day 3);
ET: 4/20 (3rd day, 2 embryos - 1 @ 6 cells & 1 @ 4 cells); Beta 5/1 - BFP!;
1st scan 5/13 - development behind, no heartbeat detected; D&C 6/2; WTF 6/13
IVF cycle 2 - BCP begun 7/12; stims w/ HGH begun 7/26;
ER: 8/6, 12 follicles, 7 fertilized w/ ICSI; ET: 8/11, 3 blastocysts left, 2 transferred, 3rd arrested 8/12 - none to freeze
1st beta 8/19 - BFP! 294; 2nd beta 8/26 - 4976; 1st u/s 9/2; 2nd u/s 9/9 - two little heartbeats at 140 each!!!
EDD: 29-April-2015
Other Meds: Synthroid 100 mcg/daily
Haha ... I'm still pregnant! I didn't plan on doing anything major for the holidays because I figured we'd have a newborn. Now I'm realizing that I may be in the hospital ON Christmas trying to deliver. So our holidays are focusing around our unborn little one.
RE appointment & testing December 2013 - February 2014= Unexplained IF, possible endometriosis
IUI#1- March 22 (100mg clomid, 75 mg of Bravelle, Ovidrel trigger) = BFP!!!
Praying unceasingly for a miracle. ALL welcome!
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Grandparents - Overnight stays I had a c/s on a Monday and got home that Thursday. Both out parents are about 8 hours away. My parents came sometime that weekend and stayed a week. DH went back to work that Monday. It was really helpful to have them there, especially after having a c/s to help with doing everything and I needed them to drive me to appts and whatnot. My mother had 2 c/s so knew I’d be limited in what I could do. DH’s parents came almost a month after DS was born. They thought they were on vacation and didn’t help do anything and left their dirty dishes around for us to pick up after them. DH asked they do a couple things, but otherwise, they thought they were there to sit around and relax on “vacation.” Obviously, they were not helpful. We haven’t figured out for this time yet, but I think my parents will be coming when baby boy arrives, as we’ll need the help with DS. The great news is baby boy’s bedroom will be what was our extra bedroom, so people (like MIL and FIL) won’t be able to stay with us. LOL
Paternity Leave DH took a week off. If my parents hadn't come, I would've needed him to take longer, but he was also taking a week off in June so we could go home and visit family.
Nursery/Gear Prep We loved our video monitor because if DS cried, we heard a “bump” or just wanted to check on him, we could make sure he was ok without having to keep running in there once he transitioned to his room. We also loved the swaddle wraps. I thought they were weird the first time I saw my friend’s baby wrapped in it, but DS slept a lot better in it. I couldn’t get the hang of swaddling with the blanket. Some babies love it. Some don’t. DS (now 2 ½) also had a sound machine with the lights and still uses it for lullabyes at night.
Dogs & Cats - Preparing for baby We don't have any pets, but I know friends who have brought a baby blanket home from the hospital before they arrived home to get the pets use to the smell. All their pets were really protective of the baby.
Returning to Work I planned on taking the full 12 weeks. I ended up having to add a week because the daycare was closed for vacation the week I was supposed to return. I'm not sure what I'm doing this time around. I'll definitely be taking at least 12 weeks again, but my daycare doesn't have an infant opening until the end of July... might have to take a leave of absence... or look for a new job while I have the time to.
Lifestyle Change I feel like there wasn't a huge lifestyle change for us. Of course, baby's needs come first and there are some things that do change, but DS seemed to adapt really well. We went out for a couple hours while my parents were here (just to dinner). We also went for some drinks while my IL's were here, but I did't trust them with baby so we made them go to a cookout next door with our friends. Our first big night out was with friends to see Zac Brown Band. A neighbor watched him. He was about 6 weeks old and was fine. I'd wait to see how it goes after baby is born, but you might not mind him being away for a weekend, especially if you have friends/family who can help you out if need be.
MC Sept '10, MC Dec '10, DS born 2012
Clomid + TI = BFP #1 March '13, MC April '13
Gonal F + trigger + IUI #1 = BFP #2 10/21/13, MC 10/31/13
Gonal F + trigger + IUI #2 = BFP #3 1/16/14, ectopic w/ heartbeat & rt salpingectomy 1/29/14
IVF #1 - ER 5/9/14 transfer cx'd due to high P4
FET #1 - 6/26/14 transferred 1 AA blast BFP!! Beta #1 13dp5dt - 1548 Beta #2 15dp5dt - 2748 Beta #3 18dp5dt - 7586
DH only took a week off. He had to use vacation. His work does not offer paternity leave.
My mom bought a wipe warmer for DD1 and it seemed frivolous at the time but I love it.
We have two cats. One won't go near the babies, and the other just smells them then walks away. She loves our older DD.
I took 10 weeks off before the babies and now am on 8 more off. I have to return to work.
2013 summary: Diagnosed with Hypothyroid; Cervical polyp removed (benign);
2 rounds ovidrel with timed intercourse (no result): 3 rounds IUI with clomid + ovidrel (no result)
2014 summary (to date):
IVF cycle 1 - ER: 4/17 (28 follicles, 3 fertilized, 2 survived to day 3);
ET: 4/20 (3rd day, 2 embryos - 1 @ 6 cells & 1 @ 4 cells); Beta 5/1 - BFP!;
1st scan 5/13 - development behind, no heartbeat detected; D&C 6/2; WTF 6/13
IVF cycle 2 - BCP begun 7/12; stims w/ HGH begun 7/26;
ER: 8/6, 12 follicles, 7 fertilized w/ ICSI; ET: 8/11, 3 blastocysts left, 2 transferred, 3rd arrested 8/12 - none to freeze
1st beta 8/19 - BFP! 294; 2nd beta 8/26 - 4976; 1st u/s 9/2; 2nd u/s 9/9 - two little heartbeats at 140 each!!!
EDD: 29-April-2015
Other Meds: Synthroid 100 mcg/daily
Grandparents: neither set stayed once we came home from the hospital (which was four days total). Both live in the same town, 2 hours away. I would not want my MIL around but our relationship changed once baby arrived so that could be different. I wouldn't mind my mom although not the first week or two with figuring out breast feeding and just a new normal. My mom and MIL did take turns coming down for a day at a time to help me with pedi appointments. I had a c/s and it was a while before I could load the car seat without hurting.
Paternity Leave: DH didn't get this. He took four vacation days total, two were spent in the hospital and two at home.
Nursery Gear: The swing was my must have. I have so much prior experience with babies that I knew a swing was at the top of my list. I did not get a rock n play (which I hear a lot of people getting) and don't regret it at all. I did stock up on size 1 diapers and wipes before baby came and would do that again in a heart beat.
Dogs and cats: We had two dogs at the time to prep. My parents stayed at my house throughout our hospital stay and took blankets home each night for them to smell. Honestly, our dogs ignored the baby for a long time and even ran out of the room when he started crying. As he became mobile, the dogs paid more attention and now our one dog lets him play.
Returning to work: I'm a teacher and had my son in March. I planned on returning in August and that's exactly what I did.
Lifestyle change: I think that's a personal decision but for us, we just made time for hobbies/friends/date nights and try to keep a good balance. We actually didn't have a night out on our own until DS was over a year old. We take him everywhere (even with friends) and it works for us. We aren't and have never been partiers (and not just the bar scene but don't go to parties at a friends' houses or anything like that), we're more homebodies in the evenings and do family weekends just the three of us or visit grandparents/aunts/uncles.
TTC #1 since 3/2011
DX: anovulatory and severe MFI
DH is a testicular cancer survivor
IVF#1 w/ICSI lupron, gonal f, ovidrel
ER 6/15/12 6R 6M 6F! ET 6/20/12
Beta #1: 154 Beta #2: 509 Beta #3: 7326
Baby Boy born 3/1/2013
TTC#2: 6/2014 all testing came back normal
IVF#2 (#1 for LO#2) 9/2014 - 17R 10M 10F 4 blasts frozen on day 6.
FET #1 10/15/14 - Beta #1: 216 Beta #2: 823
Baby Boy born 7/10/2015
IUI#2 Femara/Ovidrel (cd 5-9) = BFN
IUI#3 Femara/Ovidrel (cd 3-7) = BFP!
beta #1 11/23 = 270, P4 = 75
beta #2 11/28 = 2055
Our daughter E was born 7/29/2012!
Surprise, our 2nd daughter P was born 5/22/14!
Me-36, Unexplained Infertility, DH-35, all clear
Clomid 50mg 12/2011 = BFN
Clomid 100mg 1/2012 = BFN, with Cyst
IVF #1 Lupron/Menopur/Gonal-f/HCG Trigger
ER 4/19/12 = 11 retrieved, 6 fertilized,
ET 4/22/12 = 2 transfered (day 3), remaining 3 weren't good enough to freeze
Beta 5/3 = BFP, 87 Beta #2 5/7 560.9 Beta #3 5/9 1376.5 First u/s One Baby, 125bpm!
Second u/s, 176bmp! Kicked over to the OB by the RE at 8w. Team Green!!
Paternity leave- DH got 2 weeks and it was perfect for us as he got time to spend with LO and his horrible parents came and I didn't have to deal with them alone.
Nursery- a tall dresser with draws I can't stand bending over to change a diaper. Our dresser is 36 inches perfect height for us.
Lifestyle change- for us our world didn't change that much because we literally take LO everywhere and she just adjusts to wherever we are quite well. She doesn't have set nap times and has never really napped for more than 20 mins except in the car so we are always on the move. I think the most important thing is to make your babies schedule what works for you. I always knew that I didn't want LO to have one set nap time where she had to be in her crib at home because that just doesn't fit our lifestyle. Sometimes I wish she would just sleep but as I speak she's having a party in my moms jacuzzi tub with my sisters and I'm able to help my sick father so it works for us.
Once a month I go out with a group of moms and just decompress and that really helps.
Anovulatory cycles, increased Synthroid Diagnosed Sep 2010
1 Clomid/Ovidrel BFN May 2011
Natural cycle Aug 2011 BFP M/C 4 Weeks
1 IUI Sept 2011 BFP M/c 7 weeks
Provera Dec 2011 BFP M/C 3 Weeks
IVF March 2012 BFP m/c 4weeks 5 days (IL, Prednisone)
IVF#2w/DS July 2012 MEGA FAILURE BFN (IL, Dexamethasone)
Diagnosed No real HLA Match, DQ Beta Triad, High TNF, Low NK Cells
Oct 2012 Natural Cycle m/c 4wks (Lovenox, Prednisone)
Went to Beer Center- high tnf, low lad, implantation failure
Jan 2013 BFP
Humira,LIT,Prednisone, Lovenox, IVIG, Baby Aspirin
Miracle Born August 2013 Premature
Yours doesn't have to be a sad story
Paternity Leave How many dads took paternity leave? For how long? And was it enough, too much, just right? My ex never had any. He got a few days off work but that was it. He actually went on a hunting trip for a week when my second was 1 week old and I had a 5 yr old. That pissed me off but I really didn't need help.
Nursery/Gear Prep 1) What's your nursery must have? (besides crib and the obvious) What's one thing you have but never used so it's not worth the time? 2) Was there anything you wished you had purchased or stocked up on before the baby arrived?
This is where the OMG it was so long ago. My one iffy was a swing. My oldest liked if but youngest hated it. I wouldn't spend a fortune on one. My youngest loved his mobile and anything with music. Baby wipe warmer is the bomb. I bottle fed so the bottle warmer was awesome. I think mine warned it with steam. Humidifier was a necessity in my household, my son came home from the hospital sneezing. LOTS of burp cloths, I liked just plain old cloth diapers. My favorite clothing was gowns, it was so easy for changes. I hated those jumpers with feet because it's a pain in the butt tacking down those little feet to get in them. Some babies hate being changed and if you have one screaming the last thing you want to do is trying to put feet in a footed sleeper and get everything snapped down, get some gowns it's quick for changes.
Nursing Bras no clue here I'm as lost as everyone else
Returning to Work What was your plan on returning to work after having the baby? And did you actually stick with that plan? I went back when my youngest was 4 weeks old. I didn't want to but it had to. I had no issues.
Lifestyle Change 1) Any advice on easing the change of lifestyle for the SO? No. I think because it's not a sudden change you both change as you go along.
Grandparents - Overnight stays
I think this is a personal decision. I didn't have our parents stay over - I wanted this time for DH and I to learn LO and bond with her. They did bring dinner and visit some but we're pretty good about giving us our space too. I had a pretty easy delivery so really didn't need the extra help. Plus you get some awesome mommy super powers that help you push through exhaustion and such.
I like having my space so I'm not sure how I would like both our moms staying with us any time, much less right after having LO. But again, this is a personal decision. If you and YH want them there, then definitely have them come!
I did have my mom come some after DH went back to work. She would bring lunch or just come so I could take a shower. Very low key.
Paternity Leave
DH took the week after LO was born off to stay home with us. I was nervous about him returning to work but he was able to come home some. I would've liked another week but then again it was nice to cuddle with LO and have time with her. On the other hand if she was fussy or if my boobs were causing issues (I had some BFing issues) I would meltdown.
Nursery/Gear Prep
Aden and Anais swaddlers and a comfy chair. We have an awesome glider/rocker that was (and still is) a lifesaver. Ohhh and a video monitor. Love it! I borrowed a wipes warmer from my sister and never ever used it. Or a bottle sanitzizer.
Hmmmm I can't think. We ended up needing more newborn clothes than we'd gotten. But MIL got those for us. Anything you can stock up on like paper towels, toilet paper, bottled water, etc is a must!
Nursing Bras
I started getting uncomfortable toward the middle/end of 3rd tri so I bought nursing bras then from Motherh.ood Maternity. They worked afterward too. I got so engorged though that super soft and unsupportive bras were my saving grace at first.
Dogs & Cats - Preparing for baby
We had a cat and she was curious but stayed away. She wasn't a jumper or climber so we never had to worry about her getting into the crib or anything but I tried to keep her out of LO's room.
Returning to Work
I had 6 weeks off but my gallbladder flipped out 3 weeks PP so I had to have it removed 4 or 5 weeks after S was born. So I got an extra week off work. So I stuck to my plan. It was hard going back but if you have a good nanny/daycare it makes all the difference in the world. I feel like I'm a better mom having some time away from her. Plus she has learned so much at daycare.
Lifestyle Change
I don't know if there's any way to really prep. People told us all the time how much things would change but there's no preparing for how different things are. It's awesome, stressful and overwhelming all at once. But oh soooo worth it!!
Definitely plan some time with DH and you alone. It will be hard to leave baby but it's nice to have some time with each other. You have to make sure you work on your relationship and don't forget its importance. It is hard on YH to deal with all the changes a baby brings, and it can be hard on your relationship. Cut each other some slack, love on each other, and try to be patient and understanding.
YOU are the mom, and one thing I wish I would have learned earlier is that you need to be able to speak up and stand up for yourself (and your kid). Set the stage early, it's ok to let people know what you need (ESPECIALLY TWIN MOMS).
As a new mom, you won't need people over to help hold the baby. You'll need food, grocery shopping, dishes and laundry done. You'll need them to keep an eye on the baby so you can shower and nap. Help people help you. You're not bossy or bitchy.
If you do have houseguests, don't worry about entertaining them. You have a newborn for crying out loud. The housework can wait, and take out food can be your friend. In the beginning it's all about survival.
Nursery/Gear Prep
A must have is a rock n play, since that's generally where the baby will be sleeping/napping (especially if you share a room). Wastes of time are diaper caddies, wipe warmers, etc.
A lot of parenting is learning on the job and tweaking things along the way. You'll end up changing the baby on the floor, on your bed, wherever. We found with twins it didn't make sense to use a diaper genie, we go through too many diapers! We just tie a Target bag to the changing table and toss it throughout the day.
Make sure you have a comfy place to retreat to. Use it to nurse, or pump or just take a five minute time out for yourself. Stock it with snacks, water, and a spare phone charger.
Returning to Work
You may not know right now for 100% sure if you want to stay home or return to work. I know it's controversial, but I think it's ok not to fully decide until you are on maternity leave. How do you know what you will like or feel like doing until you're in that position?
As far as date night, see how it goes. I have a hard time leaving the babies, but at 3 weeks PP I was ready to have a date day with hubby. It's hard taking time for yourself with newbies, let alone time for your spouse. If you're not ready to leave LO, you can still do things where you can take them with. DH and I go on lots of evening walks with the babies in the ergos. They zonk out and then we get to walk and talk and reconnect.
When DH went on a weekend bachelor party I stayed with my parents. It gave us some nice time with my folks while DH got to go enjoy himself with the guys. He ended up coming home a night early. He missed us lol.
Don't worry so much about getting DH to understand things change. I guarantee you... he knows this. He's witnessing changes in you every day and he's probably not in full blown panic mode You're probably going to wig him out more by reminding him of much life is going to change :P
Hope this helps someone! My biggest advice is to be kind to yourself. Understand that parenting is a learn on the job kinda deal. You're going to screw up, you're going to do things wrong and guess what, it's ok. You love your little babies and you do the best damn job you can.
Twin moms.... you got this. Twins are freaking awesome
QOTW: I am super late on Christmas shopping bc I spent most of the season trying to get things together for the baby and finishing up the nursery. We live in NE Ohio and the weather can be brutal at times. I didn't want to be running around in January/February scrambling to finish up.
My heart is as open as the sky.
Read about it on the blog
2 Corinthians 12:9 But he said to me, "My grace is sufficient for you, for my power is made perfect in weakness." Therefore I will boast all the more gladly about my weaknesses, so that Christ's power may rest on me.
As for weekends away or other trips which aren't for work, it's hard because you're trying to balance keeping your own sanity while allowing your partner some fun time away. My husband takes at least one long weekend each year to hang out with his friends and then he also is gone here and there for work. It's hard being responsible for everything and so we do often ask his parents to help us out.
Kelly, Mom to Christopher Shannon 9.27.06, Catherine Quinn 2.24.09, Trey Barton lost on 12.28.09, Therese Barton lost on 6.10.10, Joseph Sullivan 7.23.11, and our latest, Victoria Maren 11.15.12
Secondary infertility success with IVF, then two losses, one at 14 weeks and one at 10 weeks, then success with IUI and then just pure, crazy luck. Expecting our fifth in May as the result of a FET.
This Cluttered Life
QOTW: We usually put up decorations and do most of our xmas shopping on black Friday but this year we haven't done anything. We decided to skip out on decorating because we figure by the time baby girl gets here, we'd have to take down everything and it's just too much trouble with a newborn! As for the shopping, I've completely slacked off and need to get my butt in gear, as apparently xmas is this Thursday! Oy!
*May Siggy Challenge - Parenting Fails*
QOTW: we did less decorations outside and inside this year since I just didn't feel as up to it but other than that things are will be the same.
**Signature Warning**
TTC #2