I CAN'T

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BabyM82714

No no no no!

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jenniferurs

becominggold

No! Don't go!

dogperson11

???

bumpuser10150228

@lappyfoinker‌ no!!! I always loved your posts and appreciated your honesty! You seem like a fun down to earth person. I will really miss your fun GTKY posts and humorous anecdotes. I would love to be invited in your new group but I understand if you don't know me well enough yet since I am a newbie! *hugs* don't let it get to ya.

herecomesthesun

Don't let them win, girl. Don't let them get to you and don't leave.

SherryBaby2014

Your wit/humor/honesty would be missed here. :-(

dobbysocks33

Just like these others ladies have stated. Nooooo! Don't go we heart you.

belle785

Please don't go!!

Jennicillin

loislayn said:

This seems a touch....dramatic.

Yeah.... what she said

BabyM82714

I'm joining the private group and will probably loose contact here too. The nasty comments that are in no use justsnark or educational banter aaren't called for.

And continuing negativity at all on this thread is ridiculous.

We do not know each other personally. We do not know if someone may have an underlying anxiety disorder, eating disorder, sensivity to different subjects, or just a plain old sensitive good hearted person. A person reaching out us a person reaching out.

We do not personally know each others battles. So for a thread that is posted out of hurt and sadness to be responded to as dramatic (even if it is(Ithink not) or you think it is) do you really think you should ccontinue to make someone feel worse. I mean grown adult women with no class or manners. Empathy, compassion.

Nope nope not my cup of tea.

jenniferurs

I too think it's ridiculous to kick a woman when she's down. Would I personally get this upset? No. I post on a message board full of dudes and you have to have the thickest of skin to stick around...but that's not the point. She is this upset, and as one of us, she deserves support. Absolutely no reason to come in here being snarky. Honestly, the whole "embrace the snark" movement that's infiltrated the boards as of late reeks of a high schoolish mentality or some kind of internet dick measuring contest.

Enough.

salsy2012

Leskay said:

@cruelsound‌ don't be a fucking twat. Alit of women here are dealing with PPD

I'm dealing with PPD. I'm on medication and i don't GCBC because people don't like me . I'm not seeing the parallel here.

And yeah, @cruelsound‌. Stop being a twat! You're supposed to save your twatiness for the FB group. Because we like your twat there.

Jennicillin

I love how quick you are to chastize her for picking on people who might have PPD (which she didn't actually do btw) while simultaneously calling her a twat

wandsandwine

I haven't been around today much. What did I miss? @lappyfoinker‌ you are a great part of this board please don't leave

bumpuser10150228

cruelsound said:

Leskay said:

@cruelsound‌ don't be a fucking twat. Alit of women here are dealing with PPD

LOL

As someone who is dealing with PPA, i don't think it's something to make light of. It's miserable.

Nuclearcupcake

Prozac is helpful. Maybe @cruelsound‌ was trying to do her a solid.

Jennicillin

Keep up Leskay..... Salsy has PPD!  Pay attention before you lecture!  

jenniferurs

cruelsound said:

I'm still laffin' at the idea of me making fun of PPD. ME, of all people.

The mere fact that you suffer from something does not make it impossible for you to be insensitive towards others who are. I've been raped and held hostage before, but that doesn't give me free reign to demean anyone who hasn't handled it the same way I have. Nor does it mean that because it's happened to me, others can't get offended if I choose to joke about the subject matter. Try a little decency. Christ. 

forevermyfenix

I wonder how many of these ladies would actually say these hurtful things to someone's face. 

Must be nice to hide behind a keyboard. 

bumpuser10150228

cruelsound said:

WHO ARE YOU PEOPLE.

New people joined the board and have been participating, I don't get why all the older regulars seem to be mad about that.

jamjoyful

Fuck. Why did I delete FB.

Sorry, but this post is AWish and slightly ridiculous. She could've just come back and no one would've thought anything of it.

jenniferurs

loislayn said:

And no, this is not internet bullying.

I have no idea of the history here and I avoid sex like the plague, but that OP rant WAS dramatic.

Whether or not it was dramatic isn't the issue. I've already said that I myself wouldn't handle some flaming this way. What the issue is is coming into a thread where someone is hurting and needlessly taking shots at them. What's the point of that? Some e-cred?

Cool. Good job. Good effort.

Jennicillin

lizzie82088 said:

WHO ARE YOU PEOPLE.

New people joined the board and have been participating, I don't get why all the older regulars seem to be mad about that.

Here's why.... because you called us out, tagged us in posts, and then got all shitty and snooty about it.

Oh the Facebookers, they're "exclusive" they want our awards blah blah blah

You don't know shit.

You thought you all could say crap because we were in Facebook.... it never occurred to you we were still around, just you know, on mobile, on maternity leave, surviving the second leap, etc.....  

In short, You. Got. Caught.  You were being shitty and you got caught.

That's why we're mad.  You thought this board was suddenly all yours, forgetting it's a PUBLIC forum, and then got butt hurt at us for coming back to TB, when you all are the ones that called us out in the first place.

You call for one of the originals, you get us all.  Don't like it?  Tough shit, that's how we roll

forevermyfenix

loislayn said:

I wonder how many of these ladies would actually say these hurtful things to someone's face. 

Must be nice to hide behind a keyboard. 

I tell people they are being dramatic all the time.

That's implying that I said being called dramatic is hurtful. Which I didn't. 

Nuclearcupcake

Calling someone a twat and then crying Internet bully makes tons of sense.

jamjoyful

Jennicillin said:

lizzie82088 said:

cruelsound said:

WHO ARE YOU PEOPLE.

New people joined the board and have been participating, I don't get why all the older regulars seem to be mad about that.

Here's why.... because you called us out, tagged us in posts, and then got all shitty and snooty about it.

Oh the Facebookers, they're "exclusive" they want our awards blah blah blah

You don't know shit.

You thought you all could say crap because we were in Facebook.... it never occurred to you we were still around, just you know, on mobile, on maternity leave, surviving the second leap, etc.....  

In short, You. Got. Caught.  You were being shitty and you got caught.

That's why we're mad.  You thought this board was suddenly all yours, forgetting it's a PUBLIC forum, and then got butt hurt at us for coming back to TB, when you all are the ones that called us out in the first place.

You call for one of the originals, you get us all.  Don't like it?  Tough shit, that's how we roll

***************mobile quote fail**************

I think it was me who originally tagged @salsy2012‌. Why? Because she's a reg and who I thought deserved the stupid award. I tagged people I remembered from all the way back when the pee sticks were still wet. I didn't know it was exclusive.

salsy2012

Jennicillin said:

lizzie82088 said:

cruelsound said:

WHO ARE YOU PEOPLE.

New people joined the board and have been participating, I don't get why all the older regulars seem to be mad about that.

Here's why.... because you called us out, tagged us in posts, and then got all shitty and snooty about it.

Oh the Facebookers, they're "exclusive" they want our awards blah blah blah

You don't know shit.

You thought you all could say crap because we were in Facebook.... it never occurred to you we were still around, just you know, on mobile, on maternity leave, surviving the second leap, etc.....  

In short, You. Got. Caught.  You were being shitty and you got caught.

That's why we're mad.  You thought this board was suddenly all yours, forgetting it's a PUBLIC forum, and then got butt hurt at us for coming back to TB, when you all are the ones that called us out in the first place.

You call for one of the originals, you get us all.  Don't like it?  Tough shit, that's how we roll

BOOM

bumpuser10150228

Jennicillin said:

lizzie82088 said:

cruelsound said:

WHO ARE YOU PEOPLE.

New people joined the board and have been participating, I don't get why all the older regulars seem to be mad about that.

Here's why.... because you called us out, tagged us in posts, and then got all shitty and snooty about it.

Oh the Facebookers, they're "exclusive" they want our awards blah blah blah

You don't know shit.

You thought you all could say crap because we were in Facebook.... it never occurred to you we were still around, just you know, on mobile, on maternity leave, surviving the second leap, etc.....  

In short, You. Got. Caught.  You were being shitty and you got caught.

That's why we're mad.  You thought this board was suddenly all yours, forgetting it's a PUBLIC forum, and then got butt hurt at us for coming back to TB, when you all are the ones that called us out in the first place.

You call for one of the originals, you get us all.  Don't like it?  Tough shit, that's how we roll

I hope you're using you in the wider sense because I never said jack shit about Facebook and thought the more the merrier. I just think this whole thing is stupid. It's crap like this that made me afraid to join before and why I waited so long. I really am not into arguing so I'll just back away.

jendem8

JFC to all of this.

This shit is ruining this board.

Jennicillin

I hope you're using you in the wider sense because I never said jack shit about Facebook and thought the more the merrier. I just think this whole thing is stupid. It's crap like this that made me afraid to join before and why I waited so long. I really am not into arguing so I'll just back away.

Yes, in the wider sense,  The same way we're all grouped as "old regulars" or "Facebookers"  In my argument the "You" is "The new people who have been super shitty to us for two days and can't figure out why we don't like that too much"

mikescutie7

jenniferurs

Jennicillin said:

lizzie82088 said:

WHO ARE YOU PEOPLE.

New people joined the board and have been participating, I don't get why all the older regulars seem to be mad about that.

Here's why.... because you called us out, tagged us in posts, and then got all shitty and snooty about it.

Oh the Facebookers, they're "exclusive" they want our awards blah blah blah

You don't know shit.

You thought you all could say crap because we were in Facebook.... it never occurred to you we were still around, just you know, on mobile, on maternity leave, surviving the second leap, etc.....  

In short, You. Got. Caught.  You were being shitty and you got caught.

That's why we're mad.  You thought this board was suddenly all yours, forgetting it's a PUBLIC forum, and then got butt hurt at us for coming back to TB, when you all are the ones that called us out in the first place.

You call for one of the originals, you get us all.  Don't like it?  Tough shit, that's how we roll

rockyrollgirl

Joy1192 said:

Fuck. Why did I delete FB. Sorry, but this post is AWish and slightly ridiculous. She could've just come back and no one would've thought anything of it.

This. 

jenniferurs

loislayn said:

And no, this is not internet bullying. I have no idea of the history here and I avoid sex like the plague, but that OP rant WAS dramatic.

Whether or not it was dramatic isn't the issue. I've already said that I myself wouldn't handle some flaming this way. What the issue is is coming into a thread where someone is hurting and needlessly taking shots at them. What's the point of that? Some e-cred? Cool. Good job. Good effort.

This isn't even a flaming! It seems more like a foot stomping temper tantrum than a cry for help and actual pain. I make one comment and now I'm taking shots? I've got lots of e-cred, the good kind. The loving and supportive and genuine kind.

My comment, while responding to you, was not directed at you. You're right, you never took shots. 

bumpuser10150228

Where were people shitty? I'm genuinely asking since I must have missed it.

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rockyrollgirl

And these type of GBCB threads never go well. 

Jennicillin

I know right @LoisLayn I laughed and it was at me.... I have a sense of humor and shit :-p

In the bj thread one or two dissenting oppinions basically turned into, "Why the hell are you all here anyway?  You left!"  In the randoms thread all the old timers were suddenly "Just back for the awards"  It was crap.