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If you are looking for Google . . . A greeting to those who are thinking about posting and running

buggirl72buggirl72 member
edited May 2016 in TTC After a Loss
Hi there! I see that you are new to TTCAL.



You have came across a great support community. Maybe you have been lurking awhile and get what this place is about.

Support.

Support for everyone - whether they have been here 1 day or more than a 1000 days.


What we are not is Google.

Maybe you thought "Hey, I have a question!" and decided that you would just ask us because you are worried that Google will give you bad medical advice.



Maybe you think we will have all of the knowledge (or you wanted examples of "real" experiences).


Or maybe you Googled your question and it brought you to this Bump forum and you decided to just post your question to us.



What ever brought you here, please remember what we are: a support community.


We are not Google.


If you are here just to ask a question (or multiple questions) and don't have the intention/plan/desire/ability to support others on this board, please move on.

We are a community that gives support to get support.





So, if you feel like this:

and you feel like we must support you, even though you do not intend to support us


Please do not waste our time by posting a question that you will not even take the time to read the responses to or respond or say thank you. We would prefer for you to keep driving.



If you go ahead and post your question anyways, and are going to get upset when we give you our honest feedback or try to tell us that we are bad/mean/terrible excuses for women because we did not bend over and behave the way you wanted/demanded/expected.




If you still have a question that you desperately need an answer to, please click -------->   here




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Re: If you are looking for Google . . . A greeting to those who are thinking about posting and running

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    MSU_Girl1202MSU_Girl1202 member
    edited June 2014
    buggirl72: This is perfect! Gets the point across completely. :-) Especially like the Sherkock gifs! haha
    How do we get this to be a sticky at the top?
    Married 07/2006, TTC since 2010
    08/2011: Clomid 50mg, IUI --> BFN  ,
    10/2011: Clomid 100mg, IUI --> BFN
    04/13: Clomid, IUI BFP --> MC at 6w1d
    05/13: Femara 2.5mg, IUI --> BFN  , 08/13: Femara 2.5mg --> BFN
    03/14: Femara 5mg, IUI --> 1 follicle @ 27d --> BFP! EDD 12/02/14--> blighted ovum, missed MC 6w6d --> D&C
    4/23: D&C...starting over again, with a little part of my heart broken off
    5/31: Femara 7.5mg --> cancelled cycle, no follies
    7/14: Femara 5mg + brevelle + menopur + IUI --> converted to IVF, ER 7/28 --> ET cancelled due to severe OHSS.
    9/20/14:  Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFP--> EDD 6/6/15 --> MC at 5w3d      
    10/16/14: Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFN
    2/6/15: Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFP --> MC at 5w4d
    3/20/16: PGS-tested Frozen Embryo Transfer --> BFP, Living Child born 12/1/15
    6/6/17: Fresh IVF Cycle --> Severe OHSS, 5 PGS-tested embryos frozen
    2/23/18: PGS-tested FET --> BFN
    3/30/18: Cancelled cycle due to lining 4.2mm
    6/21/18: PGS-tested FET --> BFN
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    MrsKush1014MrsKush1014 member
    Love!

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    BFP: 3/9/2014  EDD: 11/11/2014  MMC: 4/10/2014  D&C: 4/11/2014
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    blackbird818blackbird818 member
    Bug, I LOVE you even more now than I thought possible. :x

    Your way with words (and gifs) never ceases to amaze me! ^:)^
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    zapgurl44zapgurl44 member
    Ah-mazing!!!!
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    BFP #1 9/6/2009 EDD 5/29/10. Missy Moo born 5/12/10 after 3 months of bedrest due to PTL, IC and a bicornuate ute causing IUGR
    BFP # 2 1/28/12 EDD 10/6/12 No heartbeat seen @ 10 weeks, Autumn
    BFP #3 8/18/12 EDD 5/2/13 No heartbeat seen at 7w3d, Mae
    BFP #4 01/31/2013 EDD 10/15/2013 No HB seen in our little girl at 10w2d due to trisomy 12, Abigail
    BFP #5 6/27/2013 EDD 3/10/2014 diagnosed with protein S deficiency heparin twice a day. Luke's HB stopped at 8wks
    BFP#6 12/22/2013 EDD 9/4/2014 No HB seen at 7w2d, Leia

    BFP #7- 5/12/14 EDD 01/2015, ruptured ectopic 5/31/14

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    Km380Km380 member
    Amazing! How does this become a sticky at the top?

    PgAL welcome


    Married 6/11/2011

    Me & Hubby: 34

    TTC journey started 12/2012

    BFP #1 6/5/2013, MC confirmed 6/26/2013 @ 7 wks

    BFP#2 8/25/2013 MC confirmed 10/16/2013 @ 12 wks (D&C 10/18)

    Diagnosis: unexplained RPL, unexplained IF.

    Also have hypothyroidism

    Started TTC again 12/2013

     

    IUI#1:Clomid CD 3-7, Trigger'ed CD 12. IUI CD 14. BFN

    IUI #2:Letrozole CD 3 - 7, Follistim CD 9, Trigger CD 10, IUI CD12. BFN

    Current plan: IVF with PGD. Antagonist - Vivelle Protocal. Stim start 12/1. ER 12/14.

    http://www.fertilityfriend.com/home/502498

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    rslh10rslh10 member
    Bahaha the google link <3 I think I love you, @buggirl72‌!
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    jjbmstincojjbmstinco member
    ^:)^

    Gif goddess!

    December 4                     image

    Married-1/2012
    TTC-8/2013   BFP-4/18/14  EDD: 12/29/12 MC-5/17/14 @ 7w4d
    BFP #2-11/13/14  EDD: 7/26/14  Beta #1: 11/14/13 (135 progesterone: 19.5)   Beta #2" 11/17/14 (733 ) 
    Hoping for good news!

    Everyone Welcome

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    goldengirl84goldengirl84 member
    This is so awesome. Bravo! =D>
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    Me: 29 DH:30 married 6/5/10
    DS: 10/12/12 via ECS (blood clot in umbilical cord)
    BFP 1/25/14 mc at 6 1/2 weeks  EDD: 10/4/14
    BFP 4/10/14 mc at 4 1/2 weeks  EDD: 12/15/14
    BFP 5/14/14 mc at 5 1/2 weeks  EDD: 1/20/15
    BFP 8/28/14 *please, please stick*  EDD: 5/10/15
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    Buttercup509Buttercup509 member
    Well done buggirl!! This is great!

    TTC since May 2013
    BFP #1 11/22/13 EDD 7/31/14
    MMC 13 weeks - discovered 2/13/14 at 16 weeks - Trisomy 13 - D&C 2/14/14
    BFP #2 10/9/14 EDD 6/22/15
    ~Everyone is welcome~
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    ellebelle2384ellebelle2384 member
    Good work!  I love the Sherlock gifs @buggirl72 :)
    Me: 31     DH: 33
    Dx: Me: Recurrent Pregnancy Loss; DH: Low Morphology (2%)
    BFP#1: MC 3/1/11 at 6w1d - EDD 10/21/11
    BFP#2: 5/3/11 - EDD 1/9/12 - DD Born 1/6/12
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    TTC #2 since 12/13
    BFP#3: MC 2/8/14 at 4w5d - EDD 10/13/14
    BFP#4: MC 5/6/14 at 4w4d - EDD 1/9/15
    BFP#5: MMC discovered 8/4/14 at 9w1d - D&C 8/5/14 - Baby Boy with Trisomy 16 (maternal origin) - EDD 3/8/15
    BFP#6: CP 11/6/14 at 4w2d - EDD 7/14/15
    IVF #1 with ICSI & PGS: May/June 2015, ER 6/3/15, 17R/17M/15F
    IVF #2 with ICSI & PGS: July 2015, ER 7/16/15, 16R/11M/9F
    PGS results = 6 normal embryos (4 boys, 2 girls)
    FET 9/23/15 = BFFN
    Natural FET 11/4/15 = BFP!
    Beta 9dp5dt = 92

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    LuvLoveXoLuvLoveXo member
    I hate to say it but sometimes we have to blame google for drive-bys.
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    LittleMrsWLittleMrsW member
    Many thanks to @buggirl72!




    Me-27 DH-29

     TTC#1 January 2013

    BFP February 27th 2014, MMC ended in D&C

    Working on our rainbow!

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    Curious about my ute?


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    BookishMommaBookishMomma member
    The Russell Brand GIF is priceless. I'm bookmarking that one for the inevitable time I'll need to use it.
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    DX: I'm a Recurrent Loser
    Me (35) + DH (37) - Married Sept. 2007
    BFP #1 - DS born 7/11/11
    BFP#2 11/13/13 - EDD 7/29/14 - M/C at 5w3d
    BFP #3 12/28/13 - EDD 9/7/14 - M/C at 4w6d
    BFP#4 3/27/14 -  EDD 12/5/14 - Girl lost to 45X at 8w6d - D&C 
    BFP#5 10/15/14 - EDD 6/30/15 - M/C at 7w2d
    BFP #6 1/5/15 - EDD 9.16.14 [CLICKY for progress]
    In search of a image


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    ikrystalikrystal member
    I had to laugh.  Well done.  
    Fish Bite Moonbeams:Blog on infant loss and infertility


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    mflowers929mflowers929 member
    =D>
    Momma to 3 angels and two amazing children
    F born June 2018
    W born September 2020
    #3 due November 2022
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    LaRomana09LaRomana09 member
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    My Ovulation Chart
    TTC since March 2012 
    BFP #1 1/29/13, EDD 10/9/13 
    MMC discovered at 10 weeks (baby measured 9 weeks) D&C on 3/16/13 
    BFP #2  CP on 3/31/14
    BFP #3  8/11/14  EDD 4/22/14
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    newfmom7newfmom7 member

    AWESOME JOB BUGGIRL! You've really summarized what we've all been feeling lately. <3 it!

    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers

    BFP#1 Oct/19/13, EDD June/27/14, MC began Dec/4/13 at 10w5d, sac measured 6w1d - blighted ovum, Misoprostol Dec/13/13 - nothing, bleeding, slow declining HCG, D&C Feb/6/14, HCG <1 Feb/18/14

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    rubysirubysi member
    Awesome!

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                ***TTCAL January siggy challenge ***
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    kvlady82kvlady82 member
    I love this.
    **Formerly kvillano82**
    **DX - Unexplained IF**
    BFP#1 3/9/13 - EDD 11/6/2013 - MMC 3/21/13 - D&C 3/25/13 
    Clomid 12/13, 1/14, 2/14 - cysts developed 
    Femara 4/16/14-4/20-14 Ovidrel 4/23/14 IUI 4/25/14 - BFN
    Femara 5/14/14-5/18/14 IUI 5/23/14 - BFP#2 on 6/6/14 & EDD 2/13/15 - MMC 7/1/14 - D&E 7/2/14 
    **All karyotyping negative, autoimmune panel negative, HSG & Hysteroscopy show nothing wrong with ute**

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    Daisypath Anniversary tickers Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers


    Lilypie Angel and Memorial tickers
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    brunettemomma1brunettemomma1 member
    HAHAHAHA! This was wonderful. Great job!
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    ambermancusoambermancuso member
    Love this
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    avriladorable07avriladorable07 member
    LOVE the Intro and all the Sherlock gifs! Thank you so much for taking the time to make this!    
     
     


    Lilypie Pregnancy tickers
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    IzzilIzzil member
    Thank you SO MUCH!! I need a little humor!!!!
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    jackiemaryjackiemary member
    Thankful for community!
    Jackie (26) & Josiah (28) married December 27, 2009
    TTC #1 since August 2011
    BFP #1 3/27/12, EDD 12/9/12, Natural miscarriage at 5w2d on 4/7/12
    Diagnosed with PCOS 7/1/13
    Pursuing adoption from Ethiopia 7/2013-currently on the wait list! 
    BFP #2 9/16/13, EDD 5/28/14 Beta #1: 363, Beta #2:876, @ 7w1d Heartbeat:147
    Team Pink!



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    becca2967mebecca2967me member
    Hi everyone new here also joined the pregnancy part in march miscarried in April.. Only just came back. Here to support and hopefully get support :-)
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    jdubs0891jdubs0891 member
    Made me laugh :) I'm new here but I'm also here to support others as well. Love this community :)
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    DeleaJeanDeleaJean member
    Haha this is too funny. Sometimes it's hard to post back because some of you posters are just so eloquent and I feel like a rambler! But I will do my best to support any way I can!
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    CarmelFaireyCarmelFairey member
    Ok, I'm new new here. I simply love the narrative and meme combo....i got the message :) Way to create and maintain a truly supportive group. I don't have any questions. I'm just reading all the experiences and learning about coping with a loss
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    queenklauqueenklau member
    Ditto ladies, this forum and the loss forum have gotten me through this challenge. Love you ladies! Wishing everyone the best in your journey and sticky babies :)
    ******TW******Siggy warning
    BFP1 04/24/2015 EDD Dec 2015 MMC 10W5d;
    BFP 2 09/25/2015 EDD June 2016 MMC 9wks; 
    BFP 3 03/22/2016 EDD Dec 6th 2016 

       Baby Birthday Ticker Ticker


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    teisha030782teisha030782 member
    edited November 2015
    Hello ladies, I was on here about this time last year. I was apart of the July 2016 babies.Miscarried last year November had a d&c done in December and now me and Dh are trying to conceive. Wishing everyone sticky babies. Fx to us all :) so happy to be back
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    Autumnrae07Autumnrae07 member
    Love!
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    shortyjroseshortyjrose member
    edited December 2015
    This is unnecessary.
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    PeggyOlsonFTWPeggyOlsonFTW member
    shortyjrose said:

    This is unnecessary.

    What is?

    LFAF April Siggy: TV/Movie BFFs








    BFP #1 12/2012, DS born 8/2013
    BFP #2 7/2015, MMC and D&C 9/2015
    BFP #3 11/2015, CP
    BFP #4 1/2016, DD born 10/2016




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