We told everyone who would be spending significant time with DD (just grandparents and aunt/uncle) that they needed pertussis and flu shots to see her. If they had refused, then fine -- they would no… (View Post)
I don't get the whole "leave the decision up to your husband; he's the one with the penis". My wife and I are a same sex couple (two women). There is no man with a penis to decide, so I gue… (View Post)
DD was put right on my wife's chest. She had a bit of vernix, which we rubbed in. She was perfect and smelled great. I don't really get the whole 'baby is icky'/ 'birth particles' thing. What exactly… (View Post)
I expected my wife to poop during labor (not a big deal to me) but she didn't! Or at least, I didn't notice anything. Maybe I was so focused on our baby coming out that I didn't even see it! I have t… (View Post)
Okay, I think I might understand the husbands' perspectives a little bit, since my wife is the primary caregiver to our 7 month old and I am not (I'm not a dude -- our kid has two moms :)) I personal… (View Post)