It matters what the nanny share family thinks if their nanny would be taking care of an extra infant for a while twice per day. All I meant by the SAHM comment was that when I'm thinking about addin… (View Post)
There are industry standards for every industry. I don't get tips, but that doesn't mean I don't have to pay them to waitresses. I don't get paid overtime but I have to pay it to my nanny. Bonuses a… (View Post)
Meh -- it seems like everyone who loved and hated the article is reading in their own stuff. It never even occurred to me that someone would read it as attempting to make moms feel guilty. I read it … (View Post)
Maybe I'm doing the comparison math wrong but that sounds really off to me, especially if you have an employer match on top of your contribution. Have you checked whether you have unusually high fees? (View Post)