I'm always talking about you guys to friends and family. BUT, I don't tell them it's The Bump/The Nest because I don't want any of them catching me talking about them. I feel like this is the only place I can talk/vent about ANYTHING and I don't want to loose that!
I do both. I've recruited friends IRL to check out the board (although I think they lurk more than post, which is totally cool b/c I rarely get to post out here these days!). My MIL was totally into it when we had the Oprah stuff going on . .. she was so excited to see us maybe get to meet and be on Oprah. My DH has a tendency to make fun of me for it, so I don't talk too much about it to him. One time we were on our way back from vacation in NC and we were stuck in traffic & behind a car that had a "I love my twins" bumper sticker on it . . . DH asked me if I wanted to get out and ask them their screen name. Men!
Only mh knows I'm here. If I'm telling any friends or family a story about someone on here I always say "A mom in my mom's group...". I do belong to a irl mom's group so no one knows the difference.
Re: NMR: Who knows you Nest/Bump?
I tell other mothers of multiples as I meet them. My DH knows. My family pretty much knows.
When I refer to you guys IRL I just call you my "multiple mommy friends"
I think people would look at me funny if I tried to tell them I close I feel to you guys.