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And to top it off

KatieLMKatieLM
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I am apparently causing a big riff between my parents right now.  My dad wants to go to Hawaii at the end of February. My mother won't go in case I go early (she is supposed to be in the delivery room, but even she wasn't she would never want to take the chance of being away when I have my first child).  So now my dad isn't speaking to my mom and she is upset. I am really ready to lose it on him for this.  On top of that, they were supposed to go to vegas next week and H and I are goign to be living in their house while our hardwoods are refinished. He now cancelled the trip to vegas because he is annoyed she won't go to hawaii so now we have to deal with him all week.  So much for staying stress free this pregnancy.  Sorry I seem to be quite bitchy and whiney today.
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Re: And to top it off

  • mrsladdmrsladd

    I side with your mom, I'd never plan a trip when my dd was just weeks away from her edd, that's just craziness.  Your dad is being totally unreasonable, so let him be cranky, just ignore him if you can.  (I understand he wants to take the trip, but sometimes timing just doesn't work out, he needs to be a big boy and get over it.)

    Oh, and btw, I think pg women are SUPPOSED to be bitchy at the end, I think that's more common than not, lol.

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  • Daisy22Daisy22 member

    Yay that's a little to close. My parents just moved their Hawaii trip from next week to May but they will be back by May 10th. And if Bailey comes before May 10th we got more serious problems then my mom not being there since I'm due June 9th. Can they not go in like April or May?

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  • KatieLMKatieLM
    My brother and his wife are goign that week so my dad is gung ho to go. The trip is for a convention for a product they sell at their company.  My dad did not want to go until he found out that my brother was going.  In fact he was adamant that he had no interest in going until two days ago.  I understand my brother and his wife not wanting to be around when teh baby is born (she has had multiple m/c and no answers), but it is unforgiveable that my dad wouldn't want to be here.
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  • moniquittamoniquitta
    That really stinks.  Your dad is being totally unreasonable... and dont blame yourself... It is your dad being stubborn.
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  • KatieLMKatieLM
    It is too bad he wouldn't just go by himself if he feels that way, but he won't go if she doesn't so now he just makes us all miserable.  Meanwhile my sil is probably jumping for joy because my dad can be a little much to deal with (especially on vacations)
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