1st Trimester

Sex...yea right buddy

So I am only about 7 weeks along and for the past 2 weeks sex has been the furthest thing on my mind...I cannot say the same for husband though. Is anyone else feeling a serious lag in the sex drive?? Should I be worried that I am?

Re: Sex...yea right buddy

  • I totally am.  I don't want it at all!
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  • I feel you. ?I felt the same way with my DS also, but during my first trimester is when my DH can't keep his hands off of me. ?I feel bad for him, but he understands. He's just waiting for me to fell better. ?With my DS once I was in my second trimester I got my drive back!
  • I know what you're going through. I'm m10 weeks and I still don't want sex.
  • Me too! and I feel sooo bad, but just the thought of it tires me out.
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  • Um yeah... poor DH.  He will never understand.
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  • i don't want any at all. the husband keeps_bitching but whatever.

    plus- the nurse told us NO until after my next u/s on the 10th- so WOOT!

  • i don't want it at all.  The sleep induced orgasms may have something to do with that... I had another this morning :)
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  • I totally feel the same way. Feel horrible for DH!! Poor guy!

  • Hah! Love the subject line. I tell my husband I might feel sorry for him if I wasn't walking around with my boobs feeling like somebody took a baseball bat to them.
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  • DH has been hinting about it for the past month but I was feeling so tired and nauseous that it was a definite no. This week I'm feeling better so we'll see. If he brings it up (no pun intended, lol) we'll give it a shot but it's not something I'm going to initiate. I just feel very unsexy lately.
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  • I've been feeling that too lately. DH was just talking about it the other night, he was asking if it was all right to do it and I almost lied and told him no just because it's the furthest thing from my mind too!! But I told him it would probably be ok, I was just too tired!! I'm ready for bed like at 8:30 every night so I'm really not thinking about that. Poor DH!! Hopefully it will come around again!!
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  • Yeah especially when I am feeling bloated and crampy with a side of heartburn & constipation!!! ?LOL... sexy time indeed!
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  • I just got mine back and I can't get enough! LOL but Dr. told us no until now because I had some spotting the first time around 7 weeks.
  • Yep Lcant believe its been so long since we have had it. Oh well I don't mind...but hubby does.....but he has been nice about it.
  • I am around 9 weeks and feel the same way, which is taking a toll on our relationship. Maybe I should have my husband read these remarks so he can see it's not just me!
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  • There are afternoons that I want to so bad, and then I get home and it's bed time and that's the last thing I want to do.  I tend to be nauteous first thing in the morning and right before bed, so I'm not usually wanting to be all jiggled around.  I haven't kept him completely deprived, Rosie has come in a few times.  DH doesn't really care, been really understanding.
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  • Ditto here . . . I have zero interest and no patience when DH brings the subject up in conversation.

    I had spotting after intercourse at 6 weeks, and the OB recommended that we abstain until the second trimester . . . so at least I have an excuse.  Although, thats only going to work for a week or so more . . . .quick!  Help me think of another reason!

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    i don't want it at all.  The sleep induced orgasms may have something to do with that... I had another this morning :)

    When do those start? lol

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  • Glad to know its not just me! Big Smile
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