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WWYD if this happened to you
My sisters and I all go to the same hair salon. V and I have the same hairdresser and T goes to someone else. DH and I have decided not to find out what we are having. This is something I have always felt strongly about and made it very clear to everyone that we weren't finding out. Around Thanksgiving, V calls me after getting her hair cut by our hairdresser and tells me that the hairdresser to her that DH and I know what we are having but we are telling everyone we don't know but I ended up telling her what it was! I was pissed and shocked and I could tell V was was hurt, rightfully so! But I semi let it go because she is dumb as rocks and who knows what the hell she was thinking. Well T calls me this weekend after getting her hair cut at the same salon, different hair dresser, and she tells me "Wow you and Ant know what you having? Im glad I had to find that out at the hair salon instead of from my own family" So I flip out and she tells me that her hairdresser told her that my hairdresser knows what we are having because I told her but we are lying to everyone else. Now I have a hair appointment for next Thursday with said hairdresser and I dont know what to do. I really just want to tell her off, but I am trying to remain calm. I also dont know that I feel comfortable seeing her after all of this. WWYD?
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Re: WWYD if this happened to you
Ask your hair dresser why she told your sister that. And then, tell her please to not discuss you in front of your sister, or you will have to find another hair dresser. You don't have to be mean, just be direct.
FWIW, hairdressers are often gossips -- that's sort of part of the job.
I would definitely say something to her but AFTER she finishes your hair. If she gets upset it can affect how your hair turns out.
I would ask her in a nice way though because it could be that she was told by someone else (not sure who) that you know and are telling only people who aren't close. She might just be passing on the gossip, so to speak.
I would ask my hairdresser that since she/he knows what you are having that maybe it would be nice of her/him to tell you since you don't know. That will shut her/ him up. Then make it clear that starting drama within the family is one very fast way of losing clients in this horrible economy!!!!!
Ditto. I try and avoid confrontation so I would just never go back to her.
Aubrey & Anthony
I would go and wait for her to finish cutting your hair before saying anything to her about it. I would then ask her why she would say such a thing to your sister and to other stylists at the salon. She probably will not give you the answer that you are looking for. She'll probably say that your sister got the conversation wrong and is confused. But I would make that my last visit to her.
ditto. ?And I would let her know that it caused a lot of tension/drama in your family & that you don't appreciate it. ?