Pregnant after a Loss

Wtf is wrong with people??

I'm so irritated with the comments I keep getting!!

A patient on Friday said to me "you look pooped" I said "yes, I'm exhausted" he goes "well you need to be taking care of that baby" as if implying that I'm not I told him I went to bed at 830 the night before which was the truth.

Today the same damn patient comes in and says not once BUT TWICE...."you get chubbier every time I see you"

WTF who says this sh!t?

~Jess & Mike May 12, 2007
12.6.07 CP at 5w
5.21.08 BO discovered at 7w, D&E at 8w3d
8.31.08 CP at 4w5d
BFP Sept 25, 2008 bfp buddy lkstor Landon born June 6, 2009
3.25.11 missed m/c discovered at 9w6d, D&E at 10w2d
4.28.11 MTHFR a1298c homozygous discovered
4.2011 Began NaProTechnology
10.12.11 Diagnosed with Type III Luteal Phase Defect
10.2011 Starting hcg injections on 5, 7 & 9 dpo
BFP 12.7.11 - EDD 8.14.12 - IT'S A BOY! Fruit Baby
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Re: Wtf is wrong with people??

  • i know what you mean!  I have gotten two more weird comments.  One old man asked if it was getting heavy carrying around an 8 pound baby.  Uh, she's only about a pound and a half, dumbass. thanks.  then the grandmother of one of my kids in class asked me today if im ready to have the baby.  I was like "not until May!!"  geez.  i saw a girl in target that i randomly knew and she was about to give birth and she was the same size as me. wtf.  grrr......
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  • yeah? I have about every 3th person I tell i'm pregnant asking me either why i haven't quit working yet or asking if I'm married in an indirect way like "oh! how does your, um, partner feel?"  I'm 23 years old!  I'm not in high school (this time) and I'm not due until July!  what ever happened to the fake "oh you look so good! congrats!" routine?
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