Just got an friend request from and old coworker. At one time we were extremely close and somehow that kind of fell apart after I moved out of state. We hadn't spoken in about 1.5 years.
She just sends me an email saying by the way my 4 year old daughter is actually xxx's and not my ex-boyfriend.
XXX was also a coworker who happend to be married with a daughter of his own.
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so random that she messaged you that with her friend request
nonetheless, a fun facebook moment!
also, I like that the cheating former coworker guy's alias is XXX -- seems appropriate
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I accepted her request first and then she immediately emailed me. I always suspected something between them but she had denied it in the past. We actually lived together for awhile while this was happening and I had no clue.
The best part was a follow-up email saying what a b*tch this guy's wife had been to her. Umm...
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great story!
My mouth literally dropped open when I read that part. So you have an affair with her husband for at least 3 years, have his baby and lie about it until the child is almost 4 and his wife is the ***?
I think I remember why I let this friendship die...