Infertility

sad and confused vent

My sister just had her 4th baby. yay I am very happy for her. Now on the other hand my other sister is pregnant with her 2nd. they had no problems with getting pregnant. This is the unfair part, MY husband and i have been trying for a year now and no luck and the doc has told me that i may have pcos. I have been reading up on this and I keep thinking what do we do if all these drugs do not work???? there is no way we can adopt because financial reasons. I really hope the doc can work her magic.....  anyone else have maybe a bit of a jealous feeling?

Re: sad and confused vent

  • of course. it's hard not to be jealous, especially when others who don't seem in as good a place get pg easily or even by accident. some days are better than others. fortunately, pcos is actually one of the easier fertility problems to treat. or so they tell me, anyway, i can't really be sure myself since i haven't had any success yet :) just hang in there.
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  • Of course. My best friend since high school is about to deliver her oops baby. I thought I would be okay with this. I have known about the pg since the first positive test. But I could not answer the phone when she called last night because I could not bear to hear another detail of her contractions. I am so jealous. I want to experience my own contractions.
    Loving life...one day at a time! 
    Diagnosed with PCOS in 2003. 
    Married in 2007. 
    Failed adoption in 2008.
    No treatment yet. 
    Life changes have made TTC with treatment impossible so far. 
    Trying on our own 2007 - 2013.
    Calling the doctor to get started 11/25/13.
    Cycle 1 - 50mg Clomid/TI cycle started 12/1/13 - ovulated - BFN.  
    Cycle 2 - 50mg Clomid/TI cycle - cancelled due to DH's flu
    Cycle 3 - Benched - waiting on DH's test results for Hypogonadism

    PAIF/SAIF/PGAL/PAL ALL WELCOME! 




  • Oh sweetie,  ((hugs))  I'm green with jealousy most of the time.  It's ok.  It's very hard to be happy for others without being sad for yourself.
    My big boy is bounding towards 4! Baby brother coming in October!
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    Hipster dog is not impressed.
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