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silverkat143 · January 2009

So I was catching up on watching my soaps and was just wondering.......

Has anyone ever cheated on a significant other past or present?

If so, do they know?

Do you regret it ?

Worcbride · January 2009

I've never cheated on anyone but I have been cheated on and it was devastating

libby73 · January 2009

No. But I grew up with my dad cheating on my mom, and my step mom. When I was 2 one of the ladies my dad was having an affair was CRAZY and told my mom she was going to burn down the house one night while I was in the house. My dad moved us 30 minutes away from town to get us away from that lady.

lhuttlinger · January 2009

no.

7/04Bride · January 2009

Nope.

flygeah · January 2009

nope

earthboundmisfit · January 2009

Absolutely not. I couldn't do that to anyone, but I also don't put/get myself into situations where I might be tempted. I can't even entertain the thought of cheating on my husband..it makes me sick to my stomach.

Oklahoma&hearts;Breakdown · January 2009

I had just started dating my DH (just boyfriend at the time) and I kissed my ex boyfriend. Yes DH found out, and yes I felt awful.

Also, previously mentioned ex cheated on me, but I didn't find out until after we broke up.

This is awful.

CoastieWife08 · January 2009

Yes, and I don't regret it at all. I'm married to the person I was cheating with. Sure, it wasn't the right way to go about things, but oh well. It is what it is and we're happily married. The person I cheated on and I are still friends (friends as in we don't hate each other and whatnot. I do not talk to him unless we happen to be in the same place at the same time kinda thing).

Cakes2114 · January 2009

Nope.. on both

mrs_harper · January 2009

Never. As pp said, I can't even entertain the thought. I was cheated on when I was younger and the terrible emotions it made me feel made me never want to do that to anyone for any reason. If the relationship isn't good enough to be faithful in it, then you shouldn't be in it at all.

LoriFalce · January 2009

Hmm. Technically, no. My ex and I were really broken up and "just friends" anymore. Which was evidenced by him introducing me, his girlfriend of 10 years to his work friends at Disney as his "roommate." We only morphed back into a couple when his mother came down to visit us since he didn't want to tell her he was gay.

It's weird, because I felt like I was cheating the one time I went on a date and, well, let's say "made bad physical decisions." But he was banging half the gongs in the Magic Kingdom by this point. He even hugged me and said "Oh, that's great!" when I told him. Which was awfully surreal.

Daisy77 · January 2009

Eh, I guess you could say so. It was more emotional cheating than anything though. My ex and I had a kid (DD#1) and he had a thing for my best friend (so it wasn't just me) and after 7 years of his shiit, I was worn out. Along came DH through a mutual friend. We became good friends and when ex and I split, we (DD#1 and I) moved in with him because he: #1: had the room, #2: was in a different city (I needed a change), #3: showed genuine concern/care for what we needed/wanted in our lives as a family.

Yes, ex knew about it, but couldn't really talk as he was doing the same thing.

Nope. Best thing that ever happened to me. Would I cheat again? Nope. I've got a good one this time.

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