So I'm currently 16 weeks pregnant and I have a toddler who's going to turn 3 this summer. We found out we're having another boy and we saved our first born clothing and reusable baby gear (minus the bottles, pacifiers, etc). The first baby shower I planned on my own at first due to being prideful though finally accepted help. Now I feel conflicted because on one hand I have the clothes and some baby gear but on the other I would appreciate being gifted diapers and baby wipes, and other stuff necessary for the baby. I feel selfish but guilty if my second baby didn't feel celebrated, we did a small intimate gender reveal via Zoom. One person said I shouldn't but then I have a close family member asking if I had a registry. I just feel conflicted. Any suggestions? Also I'm due in October
Re: Second pregnancy, same gender. Baby shower?