It’s been a few weeks - how are you all?
Estimated Due Date/Weeks + Days:
FTM/STM/STM+:
Team Green/Pink/Blue/Finding Out:
Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of:
Upcoming appointments:
How are you feeling?:
Rants/Raves:
Questions:
GTKY: What food/beverage are you missing the most while pregnant?
Re: Weekly Check-In w/o 10.20
Rant: I think my answer above can also count as my rant 😅
Rave: My food aversions, which were very intense, are finally starting to pass!
I’ll still eat cooked sushi, steak at medium/medium well temps, and will heat deli meats to steaming like I did during my last pregnancy if I start to crave them (all of which are safe:).
Not missing anything really. Just sad I'm not finding food to be tasty. Haven't been really avoiding things either besides alcohol although I did have a TINY SIP of my BF's drink a couple weeks ago when I knew I was pregnant. I've done the sub sandwich a couple times too without heating up the meat. That'll be the case for a work thing tomorrow because they're getting Jimmy John's and I don't think they even have the capability to warm the meat or toast a sub.
I'm most annoyed that the spa we went to on our vacation last week wouldn't even entertain giving me a massage at 10 weeks like we're such delicate flowers in our first trimester. There's no scientific evidence they can cause a miscarriage from what I was reading in threads that talked about why a masseuse would or would not massage someone in the first trimester of their pregnancy. I guess this should go up in the rant section haha.
Dx: low morph (1%), ANA positive, low decidualization score, high TSH and testosterone, histone antibodies
IUI #1-3 | all BFN
IVF #1 | 6.11.19 | 24R, 17M, 15F, 6B, PGT-A tested - 5 normal, 3 girls & 2 boys
FET #1 | 9.10.19 | BFN "I know you, but we've never met. I'm with you, but I don't know your name"
RPL, Receptiva, & ERA testing | all normal/negative, recommended going on gluten and dairy free diet for next FET
FET #2 | 3.31.20 | Opted to cancelled due to pandemic, continued diet and tried naturally over the summer
2nd Opinion with another RE | 8.20.20 | Not immune to measles (received 1 dose); SA results similar to 2 years ago; decided to move forward with FET #2 redo at start of next cycle
Surprise natural BFP! | 9.22.20 | MC 10.23.20 at 8 weeks
TTCAL naturally | starting 11.22.20
Initial consultation with Reproductive Immunologist | 9.14.21
Decidualization score biopsy | 10.1.21 | abnormal - low score of 1; endometrial scratch recommended and progesterone supplementation
Saline sono | 10.15.21 | normal
Bloodwork | 10.21.21 | high TSH, high testosterone, positive for anti-nuclear antibodies and histone antibodies, high protein S, multiple genetic mutations
BFP! | 11.3.21 | EDD 7.14.22
DS born 7.19.22 after induction
TTC #2 begins 6.2023
Consultation with RI | 6.6.23
Saline sono, endometritis biopsy, skin & eye check | all normal
Labs | high TSH, Factor XIII mutation, high %CD56
Follow up | 8.8.23 | prescribed metformin, prednisone, plaquenil, and levothyroxine
Repeat labs after 3 weeks on meds
Follow up | 11.9.23 | Green light!, increase in prednisone, added lovenox
Repeat labs in 8 weeks
Follow up | 1.16.24 | Green light continues
TTC ended due to filing divorce
**New relationship starting May 2024**
Surprise BFP!! | 9.7.25 | EDD 5.11.26
FTM/STM/STM+: FTM
Team Green/Pink/Blue/Finding Out: Finding out via blood test once I am able to get that done.
Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: cherry but tomorrow a strawberry!
Upcoming appointments: Next Monday (finally!)
How are you feeling?: My terrible all day nausea slowed end of week 8 and week 9 I've been nausea-free, which is good but then of course I get paranoid. Boobs have never been worse 😭 so sensitive and painful most of the time.
Rants/Raves: Stomach Settle lozenges were a life saver! I highly recommend.
Questions: How long does it take to get NIPT test results?
GTKY: What food/beverage are you missing the most while pregnant? I miss over easy eggs, and I MISS more than one cup of coffee more than anything.
Estimated Due Date/Weeks + Days: Based on LMP 11+5 but am likely at 12 as was measuring two days early at my u/s last Friday.
FTM/STM/STM+: STM
Team Green/Pink/Blue/Finding Out: Finding out
Interesting Baby Fact/Baby is the size of: As long as a Bobby pin is tall.
Upcoming appointments: midwife tomorrow and NT U/S on Friday.
How are you feeling?: Better now. Finally better.
Rants/Raves: N/a
Questions: How do I know if I should schedule a c-section as opposed to trying for vbac? Any other STM+ know how to decide?
GTKY: What food/beverage are you missing the most while pregnant? Definitely sushi! And the bean sprouts in pho!
Estimated Due Date/Weeks + Days: 10 w 6 d
To answer one of the questions, I got my NIPT results back in 6 days.