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TW Loss

KayMayEmmAyyKayMayEmmAyy member
in December 2025 Babies
After the fiasco at the doctor's on Monday and not being able to get an ultrasound, I got the bloodwork results email in the middle of the night and my Hcg numbers weren't good. Only 8500 when 3 weeks ago they were 2100. So my doctor fit me in for an ultrasound this morning. Baby is only measuring 5+4 and no heartbeat. They are making me wait a week for another ultrasound if I don't miscarry by then. I know there's no way the baby is only 5 weeks which means it stopped growing a few weeks ago. 

This being our first, we were both so excited and obviously heartbroken now. We both still feel hesitantly optimistic for the future though and will probably start trying again soon after the miscarriage happens. Seeing some of you with healthy pregnancies now after experiencing your own losses has given me hope. Thank you all for answering my questions and good luck to the rest of you on your pregnancies.
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  • virginiahamvirginiaham member
    @KayMayEmmAyy heartbroken with you, I am so very sorry.
    me . late 30's | h . early 40's | < 3 . 2013

    *siggy warning*

    ttc#1 . jul 2015
    mmc . mar 2016
    dx PCOS (non-IR) / subclinical hypothyroidism . summer 2016
    tx metformin, levothyroxine, LP progesterone, femara + trigger + ti . fall/winter 2016
    BFP .  jan 2017
    DD .  oct 2017

    ntnp #2 . summer 2018
    mmc x2 . sep 2018 & may 2019
    RE workup, dx MTHFR mutation, ultimately unexplained . summer 2019
    surprise BFP .  aug 2019
    DS .  may 2020

    dx Hashimoto's 2023
    ttc #3 . feb 2023
    mmc . apr 2023
    mmc x3 . mar/jul/aug 2024
    dx elevated nk cells
    tx ovasitol, levothyroxine, baby aspirin, LP progesterone, lovenox, prednisone, femara + ti . jan 2025
    BFP . mar 2025

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  • thatbaintforbettythatbaintforbetty member
    @KayMayEmmAyy I’m so sorry. Please be kind to yourself. It’s an absolutely terrible club to be a part of. (But some of the people are wonderful and amazing resources if you need/want them) 
    this is my backup acct.
    prevously helloblueeyes

    Me:32 DH:33 Married:04/2012 DD:07/2014 
     BFP 8/14/2018 #2 due 4/18/2019
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  • nopegoatnopegoat member
    @KayMayEmmAyy I am so incredibly sorry. Please be kind with and take care of yourself. Grieve and feel whatever you need, but just remember these things unfortunately just happen sometimes and try not to blame yourself. 

    Praying for strength, peace, and future rainbow baby for you and your family. 
    Wife. Boy mom x6. Expecting #7. Wannabe homesteader.
    , 💙💙💙💙💙💙
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  • aisleofviewtwoaisleofviewtwo member
    @KayMayEmmAyy I’m so, so sorry for your loss, and I’m heartbroken for you. I admire your resilience in the face of this news. There will be better days 💛
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  • bridgiebee82bridgiebee82 member
    @KayMayEmmAyy I am so sorry. It is so hard, and I am heartbroken for you. Praying for your peace and comfort during this time. I pray you get your rainbow Baby. And if you do end up pregnant soon, please come back and let us know how you are. You are always welcome to be a part of this group. 💕
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  • brookejay06brookejay06 member
    @KayMayEmmAyy I am so so sorry for the loss of your sweet baby. 
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